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brenda m - Aug 06, 2010 1:21:35 pm PDT #27790 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Okay, gotcha. I thought tipping the housekeeper was fairly well established. The lawn guy I think of as someone like the dorrman, who gets tipped around the holidays but not on a time by time basis.

Now I'm reminded of a time when I left $50 on the counter for my dad - disremember why he was coming by - and the dog walker took it.

(Totally fair assumption for her to make that it was for her, to be clear. I'd forgotten she was coming on a different day that week and it was right before the holidays. Was just a wee bit more than I'd anticipated giving her at the time.)


Nora Deirdre - Aug 06, 2010 1:25:56 pm PDT #27791 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Today I was super relieved that I had a couple bucks to tip the guy who washed my hair at the hair salon (not the same guy who cut my hair.)

Man, I would pay just for that to be done a couple times a week. I looooooove getting my hair shampooed professionally.


Polter-Cow - Aug 06, 2010 1:26:53 pm PDT #27792 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

I tip the hotel housekeepers. ($2-3 bucks a day)

I've heard $3-$5, but is that per person if there are multiple people in the room?


Nora Deirdre - Aug 06, 2010 1:29:27 pm PDT #27793 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Oh man, have I not been adjusting for inflation? Ah well. I tend, more often than not, to round up at the end anyway.


Steph L. - Aug 06, 2010 1:56:00 pm PDT #27794 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

But what about the places where you order at the counter and they bring it to you?

I don't tip them, nor do I tip when I pick up carryout food.

pizza delivery.

I tip basically 20% on that.

Ugg. I agree with Spidra, just pay everyone a fair wage so the price is the price.

This, definitely.

I tip the hotel housekeepers. ($2-3 bucks a day)

I've heard $3-$5, but is that per person if there are multiple people in the room?

I think it's per room. But then, I would tip more if, say, there were more than 2 people sharing a room, because people are messy and chaotic.

I tip about $3-$5 for the hotel housekeeper, depending on what we have in our combined wallets. Last time we stayed in a hotel, between us we had a bunch of $20s, and only a couple of singles. Fortunately we also had a buck or two in quarters, and though I felt stupid leaving quarters as part of the tip, I figured they would rather have it in quarters than not at all.


sj - Aug 06, 2010 2:04:16 pm PDT #27795 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I usually tip 15% for bad service at a restaurant, because I feel guilty tipping less. For good service I tip at 20% or just above. If I am at a breakfast place where my bill comes to $5, I still tip about $2 because I figure they're working hard and shouldn't be penalized just because the food they are serving is cheap. I never tip at the coffee shops in bookstores because I know they are making the same as the booksellers, and it doesn't seem fair that they should get tips and the booksellers don't.


omnis_audis - Aug 06, 2010 2:10:08 pm PDT #27796 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

The original tipping page!. Links for US and international.


Vortex - Aug 06, 2010 2:25:14 pm PDT #27797 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I tend to tip 20% in restaurants (actually more than 20, since I tend to tip on the total, not the pretax total). If the service is not good, I will reduce the tip, but I will never tip less than 15%. If I feel that the service is that bad, I will speak to the manager (after giving the server the opportunity to correct the problem).

I don't tip on take out, but I will tip on delivery (especially since they are walking up three floors :) )

I tip a few dollars a day at a hotel if they do a good job, left at the end of the stay.

My issue with tipping is that it's become de rigeur as opposed to a reward for superior service. For example, why do we tip taxi drivers for getting us from point a to point b without dying? It's different with restaurants because the tip is built into their wages (which I think is stupid). I hate going to get my hair cut and tipping once for the shampoo guy and once for the hair cut, etc., etc.

I used to go to a salon where the receptionist would always ask if you wanted to tip the shampoo girl when you gave him a tip when paying for the cut, as in "and how much for Alejandra?" I once said "doesn't Charles tip her out?" and he sort of stammered and said yes. So, he was hustling for extra, which I didn't appreciate.

I kind of resent tipping, honestly (service wage employees aside). I won't cheat service people who work hard, but I hate feeling like I have to give people extra for just doing their jobs. Tipping is supposed to be because they've gone above and beyond. Of course, just because I feel this way doesn't make it optional.


Liese S. - Aug 06, 2010 2:32:01 pm PDT #27798 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

I almost always end up tipping housekeepers at least partly in change because I always forget I`ll need dollars. And then half the time I don`t leave it in a clear enough place so they don`t take it. But then the inimitable BHP mentioned something and I learned from her to tip on the pillow, which seems to work since you wouldn`t be accidentally leaving money there and of course the housekeeper sees it.


Vortex - Aug 06, 2010 2:38:49 pm PDT #27799 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

That's one of the reasons that I wait until the end, so they know that it's for them since I've checked out.