I would like to take this time to thank the Bitches, and in particular Pix, for making me realize that a) to watch or enjoy pron is not a horrible thing that will send me to hell, make me a monster, or deem me "unfit" as a human being and b) that I can discuss it when not drunk and ordering Jimmy John's without blushing or feeling bad about myself.
Kaylee: So, uh, how come you don't care where you're going? Book: 'Cause how you get there is the worthier part.
'Serenity'
Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Aims - Jul 16, 2010 11:48:38 am PDT #25783 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Sean K - Jul 16, 2010 11:53:16 am PDT #25784 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
a) to watch or enjoy pron is not a horrible thing that will send me to hell, make me a monster, or deem me "unfit" as a human being
It has struck me many times that even though our group of friends back in Michigan were fairly "porny" people, with pretty open minds, the Buffistas have still opened us all up to new ideas, new possibilities, and new levels of porn.
Pix - Jul 16, 2010 11:58:12 am PDT #25785 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.
t tacklehugs Aims
Aims - Jul 16, 2010 11:59:15 am PDT #25786 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Get off me, porn pusher!!
SMOOOCH!!
Sean K - Jul 16, 2010 11:59:51 am PDT #25787 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
I'll. Be. In. My. Bunk.
omnis_audis - Jul 16, 2010 12:00:29 pm PDT #25788 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
the watcher can fantasize (almost by definition) being in the, um, shoes of more than one, um, participant.this is why girl-on-girl action is so hot for the het guys. No matter the camera angle, you are seeing bits you like, and imagining you being in their socks.
Porn has helped identify fake orgasms. To the point where in college, my neighbor upstairs, I could tell when she was faking it real easy. She didn't believe me until I called her out on it with 100% accuracy. She was amazed. "But all the guys I'm with think I came". Maybe it's different when you aren't in the drivers seat.
I'm with Sean. If I'm going to watch, it's gotta be more natural. And not fake body parts either. The other reason I'm not a fan of porn videos.
Zenkitty - Jul 16, 2010 12:05:16 pm PDT #25789 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
squirting porn
I'm sorry. I can't see that phrase without laughing uncontrollably. skwert!
What does it say about me that part of what I find enjoyable about porn with women really enjoying themselves is that it makes it easier to fantasize about being her? And I've often wondered/fantasized about what it would be like to be a female having some really hot, enjoyable sex.
I dunno, I think it's says you're an open-minded guy who actually likes women. And I think a lot of people wonder/fantasize about what it would be like to have sex as the opposite gender. Hell, we ladies who write slash fic make a hobby of it! I think a lot more men do and a lot more would admit to it, if there weren't this societal stigma about men wanting *anything* associated with women.
Pix - Jul 16, 2010 12:19:45 pm PDT #25790 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.
I'm sorry. I can't see that phrase without laughing uncontrollably. skwert!
Me either! The squirting porn weirds me out, frankly. I mean, if it works for them, awesome, but...it moves my mind from thinking about sex to thinking about anatomy. Which is all well and good, but not remotely arousing. For me, of course.
erikaj - Jul 16, 2010 12:33:42 pm PDT #25791 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!
I'm not sure what I think in re legalization and whatnot, because, clearly, making prostitution a criminal act protects nobody. However, the most ardent legalization advocates I ever meet seem to be young men who wish that their pretty friend would start selling ass. The only desire that fills me with is the desire to beat them till they cry. And not the fun kind. Porn: I like to read dirty stories and whatever, but I've hardly ever seen anything in porn movie that even came near my buttons...the few I have seen aren't my fantasies. Apparently.
omnis_audis - Jul 16, 2010 12:39:04 pm PDT #25792 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
um. Has anyone seen my motivation? I can't seem to find it, and my productivity for the day has PLUMMETED!