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Kaylee ,'The Message'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Jars - Jul 16, 2010 7:55:09 am PDT #25731 of 30000

And I have a hard time finding that objectionable, or seeing how it's really hurting anyone.

I'm pretty pro-porn and anti-the porn industry as it stands. I don't relly have an answer to your point on this though. However I do have serious reservations about prostitution/paid sex acts in general which might cross over a bit.

I've heard from plenty of women who are prostitutes by choice, and make lots of money and see it as in no way against their feminist principles. However, that does not take away from the fact that something like 80% of prostitutes (in the UK at least) are drug addicts of one kind or another, and often controlled by pimps. That, to my mind, makes having sex with them rape. So, if a person is paying for sex with an individual, how can they tell if if they're paying for sex or paying for rape? And if you're working within that system, are you just supporting a system where peple aren't asking questions of women's agency in the industry?


javachik - Jul 16, 2010 8:00:04 am PDT #25732 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I am deeply ashamed of the fact that we haven't finished sending thank you notes yet. That's going to happen this coming week since we will both be home, but we're disgustingly late.

Don't be. I haven't even sent you a gift yet!


Daisy Jane - Jul 16, 2010 8:03:44 am PDT #25733 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Oh crap! I just remembered I have one to send as well!


Pix - Jul 16, 2010 8:11:28 am PDT #25734 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

No no! You guys don't need to send us anything! I didn't mean that at all. I just feel rotten about not having finished the silly thank you notes that I'd meant to send by the end of March at the latest.


javachik - Jul 16, 2010 8:16:42 am PDT #25735 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I didn't take it that way at all. Just that supposedly I have a year to think of the perfect gift for you guys, which I WANT to do, so maybe that means you have a year to write thank-you notes!


Daisy Jane - Jul 16, 2010 8:20:02 am PDT #25736 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

I didn't take it that way either! I just meant that jolted my memory that I got your address a while back because I had something to send and then I just didn't do it.

I am horrible about mail.


Pix - Jul 16, 2010 8:20:30 am PDT #25737 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

I think by the law of etiquette, we do have a year to write thank you notes, but that just seems ridonk to me. Anyway, it will be moot (Teppy, not mute!) after this week, because we are GOING to finish them. Huzzah!


Steph L. - Jul 16, 2010 8:29:05 am PDT #25738 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Teppy, not mute!

I heart you!


Dana - Jul 16, 2010 8:34:01 am PDT #25739 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

It's a moo point!


DavidS - Jul 16, 2010 8:34:03 am PDT #25740 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm pretty pro-porn and anti-the porn industry as it stands.

That's one of the interesting things about seeing those interviews with female erotic filmmakers. They're not working in the porn industry per se, though they are making very sexually explicit films.