I feel that kink is anything other than plain old vanilla. Spankings, feathers, blindfolds, roleplay. I guess, to me, non-kinky sex means no toys.
Marco: Do we look reasonable to you? Mal: Well. Looks can be deceiving. Jayne: Not as deceiving as a low down dirty... deceiver.
'Out Of Gas'
Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Laga - May 19, 2010 10:54:47 am PDT #19938 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
javachik - May 19, 2010 10:54:47 am PDT #19939 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
Right, and they're listed in the "kitty" section.
I will ask if I end up going there for a bikini wax. And of course, report back to y'all.
Jessica - May 19, 2010 10:55:14 am PDT #19940 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
Why you would want those waxed, I don't know.
Didn't we just spend the last hour talking about kinks & fetishes?
Laga - May 19, 2010 10:55:24 am PDT #19941 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
Why you would want those waxed, I don't know.
sigh I wish I didn't know the answer to this.
(in case it's not obvious: I grow hair on my breasts)
brenda m - May 19, 2010 10:55:42 am PDT #19942 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
You did remind me I need to make a waxing appointment before next week, so thanks for that. If not for the connundrum that's going to be bugging me until we figure it out.
meara - May 19, 2010 10:58:44 am PDT #19943 of 30000
I'm amused Nora is celebrating her restraint while we talk about handcuffs and kink.
I'm totally with Scrappy though, that what's kinky has changed (even over just the past 20 years I'd say--since I started reading trashy romances, what's "normal" to put in them has gotten a lot broader). That said, I do think there's a certain amount of "French vanilla" where peole who wouldn't consider themselves kinky or into bdsm or whatever think doing X or Y is "naughty" but not something their peers don't do. A not-everyday sex act, but not like, you tell your friend and she goes "you did that with him? Omg!!" Not many people are going to be shocked these days if a partner suggests handcuffs--but they probably wouldn't so it on the first time if they're not kinky folk.
And Teppy, IJS, don't knock the electrodes and the body parts. Ahem.
Steph L. - May 19, 2010 11:02:25 am PDT #19944 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
And Teppy, IJS, don't knock the electrodes and the body parts. Ahem.
Uh, heh. Wasn't knocking them. TRUST ME. (Although when described as such, attaching electrodes to one's naughty bits does in fact sound like something out of Abu Ghraib, is all I'm saying.)
Vortex - May 19, 2010 11:03:45 am PDT #19945 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
That's what's so vexing.
so, the question is, are "lady lumps" and "lady humps" the same thing?
brenda m - May 19, 2010 11:09:16 am PDT #19946 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
I would say no. But what I would picture for humps I believe is already covered under "booty".
smonster - May 19, 2010 11:10:51 am PDT #19947 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
I know that clinically, in psychology, it means "something that one must have in order to enjoy sex/get off" but conversationally it isn't used that way any more.
In my experience, as well.