wish fay the best
The next time you decide to stab me in the back... have the guts to do it to my face.
Mal ,'Ariel'
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beth b - May 17, 2010 7:01:00 am PDT #19592 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Shir - May 17, 2010 7:22:06 am PDT #19593 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
Good luck, Fay. I wish well to you.
And also? (I know my offer might sound horrifying for people who never been in these situations, but) allow yourself to enjoy every last bit of adrenaline, craziness and extra-dark humor.
That what's keeping our favorite characters alive, after all.
Nora Deirdre - May 17, 2010 7:42:40 am PDT #19594 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Fay, stay safe!
sj, glad the pain is better
Today is a nice day- I am currently at a Community Coffee coffee shop using the wifi and I think I will go open a local bank account, then go to Mahoney's for a po' boy for lunch.
Then check out how comfy the daybed is that I want to buy for our sitting room, and then maybe a nap.
Tonight: Going to the Avenue Pub for this: [link]
-t - May 17, 2010 7:49:28 am PDT #19595 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Sounds like a good day, Nora. The Avenue Pub, btw, has good burgers (though the quality can vary with different bartenders) and excellent bloody marys.
Safety~ma Fay and the cat Daniel!
beth b - May 17, 2010 7:53:34 am PDT #19596 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Coffee is NOT working
Glad to hear things are better, sj and Nora
Connie Neil - May 17, 2010 7:56:20 am PDT #19597 of 30000
brillig
Maybe this is early menopause. The period itself is almost a non-event, except for the usual physical logistics and cramps--which are blissfully getting easier. But the week beforehand is becoming hell, with the anxiety and the weird sleep and the general urge to destroy everything in range. I despise being a victim of my body chemistry. Have any other Buffistas gone through menopause, and what have they done to cope? I'm really, really, really looking forward to the monthly amusement going away, but I don't want it to be at the price of my sanity.
erikaj - May 17, 2010 8:02:40 am PDT #19598 of 30000
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-
Fay, hang in there. Connie, my mom had breast cancer, then tamoxifen, so fairly instant menopause. I wouldn't recommend this method.
Laura - May 17, 2010 8:03:45 am PDT #19599 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
It has been almost 10 years for me, Connie. I have to say it was pretty much a non-event for me. Hot flashes, mostly in the form of night sweats. The doctor had me try HRT, but it was horrible for me with deep depression; the same reaction I had previously with BCPs. I used over the counter supplements, in particular a product called Promensil and I believe that helped a lot.
beth b - May 17, 2010 8:06:33 am PDT #19600 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
a friend of mine swears by progesterone cream( it is topical ) --I'll get more details from her
Connie Neil - May 17, 2010 8:08:02 am PDT #19601 of 30000
brillig
I wouldn't recommend this method.
Yay, that sounds a bit hard core.
I used over the counter supplements, in particular a product called Promensil and I believe that helped a lot.
Those are a type of soy supplement, aren't they? Off to Google!