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Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

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beekaytee - May 03, 2010 12:34:08 pm PDT #18081 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Fie on all the bad news!

Much ~ma to Kristin, Kate and others in distress.

Congrats on a little more weight MaxCat. Good ON ya.

So, the event I've been working on for three months? Canceled three days out. Why? Because the president of the org, who said over and over again how they were handling the marketing aspect of getting people in the seats didn't bother to send out an announcement to membership until today. Plus? The announcement had NONE of the details I gave her. I wouldn't sign up for an event if all I got was a list of doctor's names either.

The second in command called me to apologize and suggest that the president was 'falling on her sword' for dropping the ball, but maybe *I* wanted to be the one to call the speakers I had worked so hard to recruit and manage.

Um. No. YOU call them and I'll follow up with them when I'm not likely to leak the bitterness I feel right now.

If, at any point, someone had said that they WEREN'T going to do the marketing, things would have gone very differently. Much as I said I did not want to do it, I might have picked up the ball. But, despite what I'm sure were good intentions, NO ONE just fessed up...not in 3 months. Ergh.

I feel like a schmoe for getting involved at all. Ah well. It's almost over.


Beverly - May 03, 2010 12:35:03 pm PDT #18082 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Oh deer loward Kristin. I know anger at that sort of treatment used to make me cry in impotent rage. Now I think I'd just lack the requisite social control to keep from confronting the bitch on her own turf. Dude, what part of "voluntary" do you not understand. "Contractual next year"? That's next year. This year? Still voluntary, and I informed you weeks ago of my inability to go. I'm sorry your circumstances have changed, but mine have not. Step. Off.

Fired? Probably. Which is why I send you boatloads of sympathy and all the new job~ma in the *world*. Taking that sort of abuse is not part of the job description.


meara - May 03, 2010 12:45:22 pm PDT #18083 of 30000

Damn, pix, that sucks.

Fingers crossed that all the timing works out, Hil!

Weird that I've heard about the flooding in Nashville here and on facebook, but notreally on the media. Hrmph.

...there was someone else to pet or congratulate, but I forget. Sorry. On my phone.


Pix - May 03, 2010 12:49:44 pm PDT #18084 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

Kate, I'm sorry I jumped in without saying how sorry I am for what you and other Nashville peeps are going through. You have every right to be upset.

Glad to hear about Hil's interviews and Max's progress.

Just got home. After bursting into tears twice at work today, I decided it was okay to leave after my last class.


Ginger - May 03, 2010 12:52:09 pm PDT #18085 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Dude, what part of "voluntary" do you not understand. "Contractual next year"? That's next year. This year? Still voluntary, and I informed you weeks ago of my inability to go.

It would be interesting to see the wording of a contract that required more hours in a week than an employee is paid for.


Gudanov - May 03, 2010 12:52:10 pm PDT #18086 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

So sorry about the job situation Pix.

Sorry about Nashville too.


Polter-Cow - May 03, 2010 12:54:22 pm PDT #18087 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

{{Kristin}}


Beverly - May 03, 2010 1:01:41 pm PDT #18088 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I haven't expressed my horror and sympathy for Nashville and the folks who are dealing with the flooding first hand, or who have friends and family there. Restored utilities and normality wished to everybody, as swiftly as possible.


Steph L. - May 03, 2010 1:12:15 pm PDT #18089 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Gah, Kristin, I'm sending lots of new-and-awesome-job-ma your way.

ION, earlier today I wrote "PC" (no quotes) on my hand, obviously because I needed to remember something. Only now I can't remember what "PC" stands for. It's not Polter-Cow, because I would have hyphenated it, even on my hand. It's not computer-related. And beyond that, I got nothing.


Kate P. - May 03, 2010 1:18:07 pm PDT #18090 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Oof, Kristin, that is a completely ridiculous and supremely frustrating situation. I'm so sorry you have to deal with that bullshit!

And thanks for all the hugs, everyone. I just signed up to volunteer with a local relief org, which at least helps me feel like I'm doing something positive.

Weird that I've heard about the flooding in Nashville here and on facebook, but notreally on the media. Hrmph.

I have no perspective on it, and it's obviously all over the news here, so I don't know how bad it is in comparison to typical media-getting events. But it sure seems pretty awful from here.