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Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Aims - Apr 27, 2010 1:58:26 pm PDT #17351 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

THE GOVERNMENT IS TOO BIG

Yes, but it's small enough to fit in my cooch, apparently.


askye - Apr 27, 2010 1:59:12 pm PDT #17352 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Also I heard back from the doctor -- I have a UTI, caused by the same bacteria.

Tomorrow I start IV Antibiotics again. yeah.

I'm hoping I won't be as tired as I was before because I'm not as sick and maybe I can do some half days next week. If not this will be all of my sick leave and all of my vacation leave.


hippocampus - Apr 27, 2010 1:59:55 pm PDT #17353 of 30000
not your mom's socks.

there is so much there that goes beyond "2nd class citizen" and into the very tempting (for some) realm of 'non-person'. Enabling a doctor to LIE in order to protect the doctor's agenda, but not the patient's concerns, the ultrasound "lesson", the ... the fact that this is brought to you by people who could care less about whether those same kids have healthcare later in life... I'm losing it.


Aims - Apr 27, 2010 2:00:59 pm PDT #17354 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Oh Askye - I am so sorry sweetheart.


Hil R. - Apr 27, 2010 2:01:00 pm PDT #17355 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I thought the while ultrasound thing was messy, but whatever--the part that shocked me more was that the doctor can LIE to you about whether the baby has birth defects, and you can't sue!! It is NOT the doctors decision, except apparently in Oklahoma it is.

This is horrifying for many reasons, but yet another is that, if I were pregnant with a child who would have special needs, and those could be identified early, I would want to know so that I could have time to read up on it and prepare before I also had a newborn to take care of.


Nora Deirdre - Apr 27, 2010 2:02:17 pm PDT #17356 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

"Non-person" just about covers it, Sox.


askye - Apr 27, 2010 2:02:41 pm PDT #17357 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

The Other thing about the Your INFo on the Web... how is that even HPIAA compliant?


hippocampus - Apr 27, 2010 2:06:05 pm PDT #17358 of 30000
not your mom's socks.

Askye I'm glad they found the infection. much healing~ma.

I want to live in a place where people who love each other can get married no matter what. I want to raise my daughter in a place where her brain is respected enough that her choices are respected. I want textbooks to teach history not pedantics. I want the entire conservative movement to experience a radical sex and color change (for starters) for a year without their retirement accunts so they can actually walk in someone else's shoes and not just bitch about how expensive and unworthy of the wearer they seem to be.


Pix - Apr 27, 2010 2:06:23 pm PDT #17359 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

I'm horrified. I have also just donated to OK Planned Parenthood and posted the story in Facebook in the hopes that might make some small difference.

askye, dammit, I'm so sorry. This is so not what you need right now.

Aims, GO YOU! You rock!

Hil, your interview sounds really promising!

ETA:

I want to live in a place where people who love each other can get married no matter what. I want to raise my daughter in a place where her brain is respected enough that her choices are respected. I want textbooks to teach history not pedantics. I want the entire conservative movement to experience a radical sex and color change (for starters) for a year without their retirement accunts so they can actually walk in someone else's shoes and not just bitch about how expensive and unworthy of the wearer they seem to be.

I want to be Sox.


Strix - Apr 27, 2010 2:11:30 pm PDT #17360 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

how is that even HPIAA compliant?

Apparently, a woman's rights are just subsumed totally by a fetus. We are, after all, just walking incubators. As long as a birth happens, the woman or the welfare of the fetus after it sucks outside air are of no importance -- the ability to suck the air takes total and utter precedence.

And letting doctors decide what to tell or not tell a patient as to affect possible decisions that they may or may not back, to let a doctor's ideology take precedence -- that's a slippery fucking slope. What's next -- not telling gay HIV patients, so they won't get medication, and die sooner, because a doctor doesn't believe in homosexuality? Not disclosing a brain tumor to an Arabic patient because you think they're a terrorist?

Where's the fucking Hippocratic oath? Where's the basic medical ethics 101 info? Where's the basic goddamned humanity?

Askye, oh no! I am sorry to hear that! Heal quick-ma, and don't come back-ma to you.

Feh. Feh, I say.