Well yes ... plus the fact that the materials weren't handed out. sigh.

Right, the materials weren't handed out, and it's not cool that the conservative group (I already forgot the name; clearly I need more coffee) is a group of big fat lying liars who lie. I'm on board with that.

But I think the more insidious notion -- though hardly a new one -- is the idea that Oh, dear God, young women can't learn that it's okay to have sexual agency! The world will END!

I'm fed up with that shit. I know too many women my own age who have enough issues with it, and I feel like, let's end this bullshit right now. Young women need to know that it's cool to figure out what you like and don't like, and ask for it when and if they decide they want to start getting intimate with other people. Liberate the donut, and seize the cruller! (If you're into crullers; if not, seize ALL the donuts!)

This is the real pro-life stance, and we as Catholics are all for it."

I don't think you can ignore this part of it though. I wish I had more of the quote. They're saying that there is more to being pro-life than stopping abortions. I don't agree with them about not funding abortions, but I can work with someone "Pro Life" if they are well and truly for promoting healthy lives.

Man, I tried to have a similar conversation before the election with a friend who was single-issue voting on abortion. I said that if you looked at the 2 candidates' platforms, there is no way that McCain's was truly more "pro-life" than Obama's. No fucking way in hell.

And all she heard was abortion, abortion, abortion. Because pre-born life is the only life that matters, apparently. All the post-born life? Well, fuck it, y'all. Once's it's out, let it fend for itself.

So I gave up. It ain't my job to convince people whose viewpoints are no better than wolves.

And all she heard was abortion, abortion, abortion. Because pre-born life is the only life that matters, apparently. All the post-born life? Well, fuck it, y'all. Once's it's out, let it fend for itself.

Yep yep yep.

I added more above. I can't think of anything more "Christian" than some form of National Health Care. Seriously.

There was something in the paper within the past week or so where the author was pointing out that, statistically, when health care is available, the number of abortions goes down.

One of the author's points was that when health care is available, women can get birth control ... which, unfortunately, is also a no-no to many of the "pro-life" people.

And part of "someone pro-life I can talk to" is that once you DO end up in that conversation you can wind up hearing things like "Well, if a woman's life is ACTUALLY in danger..." or "It might be different in just the first few weeks" and reply, "Well, that's actually the law as it stands. Abortions are very much the most common in the first trimester and INCREDIBLY difficult to get in the last. You've been lied to. A lot." and show them actual cites of actual laws.

Most caring people do not want to see other people dead. Most pro-life people are trying to protect those as they see as most vulnerable in the scenario. Most pro-choice people want the very same thing. There is a lot of common ground there if you can ignore the biggest assholes.

All I'm saying is that I'm not comfortable siding with a group whose official stance is "This health care bill won't pay for abortions! Hooray!" just because they're opposing a group whose official stance is "This health care bill sucks because abortions are still legal."

... which, unfortunately, is also a no-no to many of the "pro-life" people.

I honstly don't know how MANY though.

Technically, yes, the Roman Catholic Church is a big opponent of birth control. In practice, however, that's not always so much the case. Some of your hardcore fundie Christian suckers are as well, but most have no problem with family planning within a marriage - their gripe is with promiscuity.

So I'd call that a qualified "many". Lots of religious people have problems with sex outside of marriage and if they think access to birth control ENCOURAGES it they're not going to like it. If you can convince them, however, that statistically that is not the case there is, again, room to work together.

I'm all "let's find common ground, y'all" lately. Dunno what that is.

All I'm saying is that I'm not comfortable siding with a group whose official stance is "This health care bill won't pay for abortions! Hooray!" just because they're opposing a group whose official stance is "This health care bill sucks because abortions are still legal."

I'm not siding with them by any means. I'm just in the "Another reason Stupak is a DB" camp.

Man, I tried to have a similar conversation before the election with a friend who was single-issue voting on abortion. I said that if you looked at the 2 candidates' platforms, there is no way that McCain's was truly more "pro-life" than Obama's. No fucking way in hell.

If you believe abortion is murdering babies, it's hard to vote for the guy who doesn't want to outlaw it.

Our local source food club has just started delivering seltzer. In vintage bottles. Someone tell me that I don't need it.