{{{DCJ}}} so much love and strength to your mom + whole family, and a peaceful passing with love all around him for Ray.
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I'm trying to not be so annoyed at my mom about her guilt-tripping me. They've had no power since the storm on Saturday night, and she's going kind of stir-crazy.
Oh DCJ, tons of ~ma to you and yours.
healing and peace ma to you and yours , Daniel
Tons of ~ma, Daniel.
Codeine usually dulls my pain and puts me to sleep. Every once in a while, for some reason, it does nothing for the pain and leaves me wide awake and really anxious. This is one of those nights.
I've read... and sent ~ma and good thoughts and love to all and sundry who need them. Worried about Daniel's mom.
Daniel, all possible good thoughts to your mom.
Beth, Matt, Shir, those others of you dealing with end of pet life decisions, my sympathies, and belief you'll make the right decision at the right time.
Stephanie, congratulations on the great day.
Kristin, you're absolutely correct, you don't owe them anything. Time to be good to yourself and your family.
Job~ma, Kristin, and health~ma, Hil.
{{{beth and Matt and Andy}}} I know how hard that is. Unless I knew that something that's gonna make it easier for my dog is on its way, I wouldn't let it last more than 48-72 hours. I keep battling myself, thinking if I'm too sissy to watch him struggle. I'm glad this isn't just my decision, but I'm more towards the "let's end it while he's still eating, in mild pain and not in spasm". My point is to minimize pain for all involved. Not that I believe for a second that I'm discussing this or thinking about this, of course.
And Daniel and WindSparrow.... so much ~ma. {{}}
For me, it's about letting them go peacefully before the pains of life outweigh the joys. And, really, I'd hope for the same for me. The hard part is figuring out those lines. I am not looking forward to the tough decisions.