Oh my ita. much ~ma for your family.
Cleaning requires incentives for me...when I'm not on my massive binges, which are clearly neuroses based.
Something that helps for me is making my own soft scrub. It actually makes me WANT to scrub the tub, no lie.
- dish washing liquid to create paste
- 10 drops essential oil (I like cinnamon or verbena)
My cleaning happens thusly: I clean for 5-10 minutes, goof off for about a half hour. This cycle continues until bedtime where I begin the cleaning deathmarch where I can't go to bed until things are clean. Which becomes things are passable usually around 1:30 AM.
Much ~ma, ita. I'm so sorry.
I can't even think about it properly.
you all are doing NOTHING to make me re-think this whole, making an effort to find a mate thing. I would seriously go on strike for anything a mate wanted if there wasn't help with housework.
Oh ita, that's just hellish. I'm so sorry.
I'm so sorry about your cousin, ita. How awful.
Timelies all!
Happy Birthday Sophia!
I'm sorry about your cousin, ita.