Timelies all!
Happy Birthday Sophia!
I'm sorry about your cousin, ita.
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Sheryl - Sep 21, 2009 2:33:26 pm PDT #10089 of 30001
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"
JZ - Sep 21, 2009 2:36:29 pm PDT #10090 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
I am so sorry, ita. Much, much ~ma to your cousin, and her mother, and all the family. Words are so inadequate; all I have are helpless good thoughts for all of you.
And because Sophia is around but boisterousness is totally inappropriate in a post right after ita's news, I just want to say that I am so very glad that you were born and I know you.
And you, too, smonster. Matilda still loves to watch your Prom video and is working on her belly dancing hand movements.
tommyrot - Sep 21, 2009 2:37:03 pm PDT #10091 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
I'm so sorry, ita.
Amy - Sep 21, 2009 2:38:03 pm PDT #10092 of 30001
Because books.
Oh, I forgot birthdays. Happy birthdays to the birthday twins. I hope there's cake! The world's definitely a better place with the two of you in it.
Calli - Sep 21, 2009 2:39:36 pm PDT #10093 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
I'm sorry, ita.
beth b - Sep 21, 2009 2:42:48 pm PDT #10094 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
you all are doing NOTHING to make me re-think this whole, making an effort to find a mate thing. I would seriously go on strike for anything a mate wanted if there wasn't help with housework.
I didn't marry Dh for his housekeeping skills. Nor did he marry me for mine. We both would have been disappointed. But it is an easy area for conflict. Any two people will have different standards of cleanliness - no matter how close they really are. In our house, mine are slightly higher, except in the kitchen where his standards are much higher. And we have different attitudes. I think I deserve a clean space, with less visual chaos - he barely notices the chaos - so he doesn't get it. There were discussions. And when circumstances change, discussions resume. In general, we have peace unless there is a stress. As far as I am concerned, DH doesn't have to do anything. However he can't complain either--because he is perfectly capable of cleaning. And if circumstances are unusual -- meaning guests or something needs to get done or I have a lot of extra work - he pitches in. When I worked full time - or more , he did more.
What I get form Dh is worth way more than housekeeping. He gets me more than the people I grew up with. And despite the fact that he doesn't seem to know the dishwasher is right next to the sink, I think he is absolutly wonderful. There is no one else I would rather spend time with.
beth b - Sep 21, 2009 2:43:28 pm PDT #10095 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Happy birthday Sophia
tommyrot - Sep 21, 2009 2:48:09 pm PDT #10096 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
msbelle - Sep 21, 2009 3:01:18 pm PDT #10097 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
sue, can you hop on IM?
Sue - Sep 21, 2009 3:02:36 pm PDT #10098 of 30001
hip deep in pie
Facebook IM...sure. (I don't have an IM clients installed.)