And the thing is, I like my evil like I like my men: evil. You know, straight up, black hat, tied to the train tracks, soon my electro-ray will destroy metropolis BAD.

Buffy ,'Sleeper'


Natter 64: Yes, we still need you  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Sep 21, 2009 1:36:59 pm PDT #10076 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Such awful news, ita. Whatever ~ma is needed for your cousin.


Jesse - Sep 21, 2009 1:41:54 pm PDT #10077 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

How awful, ita.


beth b - Sep 21, 2009 1:46:45 pm PDT #10078 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

sending out the ma~~~, ita. This sounds like a rough one

meara, DH has high standards about how the kitchen should be kept. But somehow he thinks if he makes it sparkle once a month, it will stay that way, even if he leaves dishes in the sink.

eta: Vacations always leave me with extra work. We were gone for a week. The house needed serious cleaning -- and the disaster cat! with expldong hair was home -- and he doesn't clean. But I have gotten an amzing amount done today.


Sue - Sep 21, 2009 1:51:31 pm PDT #10079 of 30001
hip deep in pie

Oh ita, such sad circumstances.

With a spouse, at least you have someone to blame. Here the messiness is all on me. I've tried, but it's hard to hold cats responsible for being out of clean forks.


beekaytee - Sep 21, 2009 1:55:39 pm PDT #10080 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Oh my ita. much ~ma for your family.

Cleaning requires incentives for me...when I'm not on my massive binges, which are clearly neuroses based.

Something that helps for me is making my own soft scrub. It actually makes me WANT to scrub the tub, no lie.

    • 1/4 cup baking soda
  • dish washing liquid to create paste
  • 10 drops essential oil (I like cinnamon or verbena)


Sue - Sep 21, 2009 1:57:55 pm PDT #10081 of 30001
hip deep in pie

My cleaning happens thusly: I clean for 5-10 minutes, goof off for about a half hour. This cycle continues until bedtime where I begin the cleaning deathmarch where I can't go to bed until things are clean. Which becomes things are passable usually around 1:30 AM.


Amy - Sep 21, 2009 1:58:01 pm PDT #10082 of 30001
Because books.

Much ~ma, ita. I'm so sorry.


§ ita § - Sep 21, 2009 2:06:29 pm PDT #10083 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I can't even think about it properly.


msbelle - Sep 21, 2009 2:13:08 pm PDT #10084 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

oh ita, I am so sorry.


msbelle - Sep 21, 2009 2:14:29 pm PDT #10085 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

you all are doing NOTHING to make me re-think this whole, making an effort to find a mate thing. I would seriously go on strike for anything a mate wanted if there wasn't help with housework.