Sir? I'd like you to take the helm, please. I need this man to tear all my clothes off.

Zoe ,'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Nov 10, 2009 9:35:02 pm PST #29981 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Wake Up With Hugh Laurie: [link] (find minutes 1.07 to 3.57). Blackadder: made of awesome.

Yay for Hil's advisor endorsing the paper!

I like 'destroy the world already'.


omnis_audis - Nov 10, 2009 10:46:05 pm PST #29982 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

oh stress, why do you keep me awake? It only makes you loom more! Please release my pysche so I can slither off to sleep land, so I can wake at a reasonable hour, and get the growing to-do list done.


billytea - Nov 10, 2009 11:06:37 pm PST #29983 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I've been away for a couple of days (more on that in a moment), but the conversation about divorce and kids really got to me. I've seen mixed research on what's best for the kids. I would posit that this is an issue in which it's very difficult to control for other factors. There's obviously going to be a huge difference between a divorce in which the parents behave like -- well, parents; and a divorce where one just disappears, or they turn the kids into pawns, or take the stresses out on them. Big difference whether child support payments are made promptly and adequately or not. And so on. It's got to be so hard to disentangle it all to provide useful guidance as to whether this particular couple should stay together or not.

All I can say right now is that the idea of not being part of Ryan's life horrifies me.

On this note, last night Ryan had his first night away from home since he left the hospital. We all headed up to the Dandenongs for a couple of days. Now, the weather was a problem - we're in Melbourne's worst November heat wave since at least 1925. But we did get a couple of days surrounded by kookaburras, rosellas and native plants. (The rhododendron garden was beautiful, just the right time of year for it. Walking its entire length looking for my family - who camped out at the entrance five minutes after I got there - was less enjoyable.)

Anyway, we learned a few lessons, not least being that if Ryan wakes up in the middle of the night in a strange place, it upsets him. Poor little noodle. (Poor parents too.) But he'll go to sleep happily enough in the portable cot. (Second lesson: portable cots are still bloody heavy.) Wallybee's parents learned that when trying to turn the fan on in your cottage, it's a bad idea to turn on the electric blanket instead. And I learned that our hatchback is not big enough for four adults, one baby, a suitcase, a pram, a portable cot and some carry bags. Just as well the Dandenongs are only half an hour from our house, as it involved two trips each way. This was a pretty forgiving way to get a trial run for heading to Canberra over Christmas.

Ryan's now happily ensconced in his own cot, snoozing away and being generally adorable. I have some photos from the trip, which I'll put up when I get a chance.


Glamcookie - Nov 11, 2009 12:50:03 am PST #29984 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Spike's Bitches 45: We band of buggered


Laura - Nov 11, 2009 3:01:41 am PST #29985 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Delighted to see the universe finally giving Hil a bit of a break!

Aww, looking forward to the pictures, bt.

Hey GC, how are you feeling? You and DW looked absolutely radiant in the shower pics.

Why did I still get up at 6am when there is no school today? Oh well, off to the office with me.

Crazy that this thread expired so quickly. I've been fond of brochure as a quote for a few thread changes, so that one gets my vote this time.


Steph L. - Nov 11, 2009 3:10:09 am PST #29986 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I'm ready for this thread name to die, because it ALWAYS earworms me with the New Pornographers' "The Laws Have Changed." Which is a fine song, but anything gets old fast when it's a constant earworm.

The other professor endorsed my paper!

Hil, that is excellent!


billytea - Nov 11, 2009 3:12:25 am PST #29987 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

The other professor endorsed my paper!

I'm very glad to hear that. It's about time you caught a break with all this.


Zenkitty - Nov 11, 2009 3:44:29 am PST #29988 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Great news, Hil! Professors who don't answer my emails are on my List of People to Kill When I Finally Snap.

I like "brochure" for the new thread name. Or "buggered". I'm always fond of buggered.


Zenkitty - Nov 11, 2009 3:45:48 am PST #29989 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Right at thread's end is probably the wrong time to ask food advice, but, let's say I stupidly left delivery chicken fried rice on the counter all night. Can I nuke it and eat it, or is it a Box o' Botulism now?


WindSparrow - Nov 11, 2009 3:49:58 am PST #29990 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Tally-ho pip pip, all!

Yay, for Hil's paper getting endorsed! I know that has been a huge pain in the behind for you.

ETA:

Right at thread's end is probably the wrong time to ask food advice, but, let's say I stupidly left delivery chicken fried rice on the counter all night. Can I nuke it and eat it, or is it a Box o' Botulism now?

The safe answer is to toss it. In your shoes, I'd probably feel safe to heat it on the stove till very hot and simmering it for several minutes, adding some water to keep it from turning into a crisp, and plenty of cayenne which is a fantastic way to ward off many forms of food poisoning.