When you look back at this, in the three seconds it'll take you to turn to dust, I think you'll find the mistake was touching my stuff.

Buffy ,'Lessons'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Nov 05, 2009 6:25:27 am PST #29373 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

I've just spent three hours alternately sleeping and throwing up. I agree with your statement entirely.

Mine came on about 3 p.m. yesterday, so I had 2 more hours of work, staring at a computer monitor (light is the worst pain when I have a migraine), AND my desk directly faces west, looking at a full wall of windows. No clouds, early sunset, oh my fucking god.

I didn't progress to the throwing up stage, but it was touch and go for awhile.

Steph, I hope you're feeling better soon. It's never good when they come on too fast to take stuff that helps.

It's about 85% gone, so one more round of drugs should crush it for good. I hope.


Glamcookie - Nov 05, 2009 6:53:45 am PST #29374 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Hugs and ~ma going out to those in need.

Also a request for some ~ma for a high school friend who is battling breast cancer for the second time. She's 39. Her FB status today says it all:

Today is the day. Bye bye boobies. I liked you, until you tried to kill me. Thanks for the mammories.

What a woman!


WindSparrow - Nov 05, 2009 6:58:13 am PST #29375 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

That is a woman of many virtues, GC. Definitely sending the ~ma her way.


sj - Nov 05, 2009 6:59:36 am PST #29376 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

GC, tons of ~ma for your friend.


JZ - Nov 05, 2009 7:02:30 am PST #29377 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Egad, I'm sorry for all the miserable headachiness running through all the Bitches' heads. I have sometimes thought that if I ever somehow got that one magic wish you could wish for to fix anything in the universe, I'd let someone else worry about world peace and global warming and use mine to wish for a universally effective, no-side-effects migraine cure.

If you did decide to do that, I am generally handy and know other handy-type peoples who'd be happy to make it less cold, drafty, and leaky.

We'll definitely take you up on that someday; right now, we've just got to get her to actually sleep the night through in her own bed. If she can't do it two feet from us just yet, she's definitely not ready for the other end of the house.

I have all kinds of neat ideas, though, like beaded curtains and a wee sofabed to make a cozy den by day/bed by night. Someday, when she's sleeping through the night and we have more than two thin dimes to rub together.


-t - Nov 05, 2009 7:03:11 am PST #29378 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Surgery~ma for Connie's husband and Glam's friend (who reminds me of my friend who went from diagnosis to mastectomy in a couple of weeks just recently and maintained a similar attitude (she is doing great and back at work already, took her first shower since the surgery this morning!))

And anti-headache~ma for all.


sj - Nov 05, 2009 7:04:41 am PST #29379 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Aims, have you seen this book?


sj - Nov 05, 2009 7:05:36 am PST #29380 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Surgery ~ma for Connie's DH! I new I was forgetting something important this morning.


P.M. Marc - Nov 05, 2009 7:07:39 am PST #29381 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

We'll definitely take you up on that someday; right now, we've just got to get her to actually sleep the night through in her own bed. If she can't do it two feet from us just yet, she's definitely not ready for the other end of the house.

That may not be true. It may be harder for her to sleep with you there than with you at the other end, because she can hear you where you're at. Maybe talk to Emmett about temporarily ceding his room to her and making the nook his space until she's able to sleep?

Fair warning, Lillian only sometimes is able to sleep in her own bed all night. (And had a huge regression at 3 when we moved to where I thought she'd never leave the bed again.) We heap her with praise when she does, though.


ChiKat - Nov 05, 2009 7:09:02 am PST #29382 of 30000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

May Connie's DH valiantly defeat the Lutherans today!

Also, I wish migraine banishment to all.

Today is a beautiful day and I wish I wasn't at work.