Oh, don't be sorry. It was a mutual decision, and actually we decided it about a month ago. We're having a planned breakup. Apparently they're all the rage. Or something. It just seems to make sense for us. We're just not on the same paths, and it's good to notice that and move on at some point, even if there aren't hard feelings, etc.
One of you is gonna fall and die, and I'm not cleaning it up!
Mal ,'War Stories'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
vw bug - Mar 04, 2009 3:27:14 pm PST #2654 of 30000
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Cashmere - Mar 04, 2009 3:30:09 pm PST #2655 of 30000
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vw, I feel bad for the next girl to date him. He sounds like he still needs his mom to clean up after him.
vw bug - Mar 04, 2009 3:32:34 pm PST #2656 of 30000
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He came over Monday night and Tuesday night to help me while I was sick. I kept thinking it would be the most romantic thing in the world if he caught up my dishes. That's just a sad thought. He doesn't even help when I ask him. Before I went to watch the kids he came over to help. He ran the dishwasher and was going to wash three pots. I came over with the kids A WEEK LATER, and the pots were still sitting there. Ugh. I give up.
vw bug - Mar 04, 2009 3:33:30 pm PST #2657 of 30000
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And, I realize I'm bitching about a really small thing. I'll stop now. He's a nice guy. I wish him well. I don't want anyone thinking nasty thoughts about him. He's just not the guy for me...and better that I figure that out now than in five years.
Laga - Mar 04, 2009 3:33:48 pm PST #2658 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
Seriously, it's just the two of you, you make dinner (together?) and then he just slumps off to the couch and leaves you alone? I hope you're not feeding him again before Saturday.
Laga - Mar 04, 2009 3:34:46 pm PST #2659 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
And, I realize I'm bitching about a really small thing.
not small. It's got me pissed and it's just words on a screen to me.
Nora Deirdre - Mar 04, 2009 3:35:21 pm PST #2660 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
We're having a planned breakup. Apparently they're all the rage. Or something.
Oh, these kids today!
meara - Mar 04, 2009 3:35:43 pm PST #2661 of 30000
Oh believe me, I'm hearing you, VW. So much...
vw bug - Mar 04, 2009 3:36:24 pm PST #2662 of 30000
Mostly lurking...
you make dinner (together?)
Only if opening the wine counts as helping with making dinner.
Oh, these kids today!
I know! Crazy, isn't it?
Laga - Mar 04, 2009 3:38:54 pm PST #2663 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
the only way I'll do the cooking and the cleaning on my own is if someone else buys the groceries.