These girls have the most beautiful dresses. And so do I -- how about that?

Kaylee ,'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


lisah - Oct 08, 2009 7:21:09 am PDT #25724 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

No kidding, right? I cry very easily, which never fails to astonish and confound KBD. It's not something I can control, and I've pretty much given up on trying.

I hear you sister. Same thing happened to me last week and i had to go visit my boyfriend's family that evening. I think the glasses hide the puffy a bit but I still feel like I look like a over-emotional freak. Tea bags don't really help or they didn't last week. I wonder if they need to be black tea teabags? For the tannins or something?

I am home sick today and supposedly working from home but I can't get Word on my new computer to load. so not so much working as checking my work email every so often. That counts right?


smonster - Oct 08, 2009 7:22:31 am PDT #25725 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

PB&J and gallons of coffee:

Happy Truly Birthday, Omnis.

Zen, I also wanted to say that I get the tired of being alone thing, since I was single for 8 years prior to KBD.


Glamcookie - Oct 08, 2009 7:23:25 am PDT #25726 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

checking my work email every so often. That counts right?

This is definitely my definition of WAH! Hope you feel better quickly.


Scrappy - Oct 08, 2009 7:27:12 am PDT #25727 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I also don't resond well to "don't cry." DH has decided that "there, there" is the most neutral comfort response.


Aims - Oct 08, 2009 7:29:27 am PDT #25728 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Amy - insent.


Zenkitty - Oct 08, 2009 7:35:07 am PDT #25729 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I hear "don't cry" as a plea more than an instruction, so it doens't bother me, but I get why it would.


javachik - Oct 08, 2009 7:35:37 am PDT #25730 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Smonster, I am sorry about the middle-of-the-night troubles and crying. Totally been there and it sucks.

Can someone explain to me what an acquaintance wrote on my facebook status yesterday? I was annoyed by her comment, and haven't addressed it with her, but I want to make sure that I'm not missing something plain as day.

I wrote:

Steve moves to Boston in 4 weeks. I do not accept this premise. I know far too well about long-distance relationships. DO NOT WANT.

She wrote:

Nanita -- stop resisting - make it easier on yourself ;(

Any ideas on what she means?


Jessica - Oct 08, 2009 7:36:25 am PDT #25731 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I'd be annoyed too, Java. That's awfully cryptic.


§ ita § - Oct 08, 2009 7:37:26 am PDT #25732 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Any ideas on what she means?

I'd try and take it as harmlessly as possible, even though it is a bit ham-handed. I think she's trying to tell you to accept the inevitable and the emoticon is her trying to be nice about it.


javachik - Oct 08, 2009 7:39:30 am PDT #25733 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Well, her husband left her last year so I am guessing it's the kind of lesson she's been teaching herself. But our circumstances are so very different; my boyfriend has been looking for work for a year and a half in his field, and finally has found something - on the other side of the continent. I am not going to engage her on it, I don't think it be useful.

But, yeah. I was a little surprised to see it as a response to my status.