You're talking to Serenity. And, Early... Serenity is very unhappy.

River ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Pix - Oct 02, 2009 8:56:00 am PDT #25116 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

Thanks. It's just...I wouldn't care so much if it were a normal vacation, but it's our wedding. The whole point was getting away just the two of us to have a completely private ceremony somewhere beautiful. I've never been to Hawaii, and was really looking forward to it.

I don't know what we'll do if it falls through. I guess we'd have to cancel everything else just have the wedding elsewhere, but we can't have it locally without having to deal with ND's family, which neither of us want to have to do. Sigh.


Pix - Oct 02, 2009 8:59:05 am PDT #25117 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

Cereal:

Anyway, enough about me. Not having a job is a much bigger deal than wedding woes. I'll keep vibing for something better to come along for you, Erin.


-t - Oct 02, 2009 9:00:03 am PDT #25118 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Wow, Erin. What a mess of conflicting expectations and requirements your former employers had. And how very badly they handled you. Just, wow. It astonishes me that establishments that are that badly run and impossible to work for somehow manage to keep shambling along.


erikaj - Oct 02, 2009 9:10:20 am PDT #25119 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

Ok, I just committed the biggest bit of geek foreplay, ever. I just sent Keith Olbermann's office the correct Spanish translation for "The Worst Person in The World" I never get to laugh at Trekkies again. But it sort of shocked me that he stumbled over it, considering all the jugadores cubanos de beisbol But if I really sent him Coultergeist's ear, he'd chastise me. And maybe not in that sexy Giles "Do you want to be punished?' way.


Strix - Oct 02, 2009 9:13:02 am PDT #25120 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

To be fair: my immediate boss was a very nice person who genuiniely worked her ass off. She did try to work with me. There was a lot of...lack of awareness and/or availability for funding to make this potiion work. They wanted me to do full-time teacher work, and I don't think they understood what this entails, time-wise.

I could have communicated this better, earlier, and I was absent quite a bit. I am not all the innocent "didn't do a thing wrong, not me, nope" person.

HOWEVER...there are substantial flaws in their expectations vs. reality and time line. And as a social-services agency, they are very canny about CYA.


sj - Oct 02, 2009 9:19:26 am PDT #25121 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Erin, it sounds like your employers were completely unrealistic. I'm glad you have your bf to lean on, and I am sure you would do the same for him if the situation was reversed.

Epic, TCG bounced right back from the food poisoning. I'm still a little off, but not enough that I can't enjoy a weekend away.


Shir - Oct 02, 2009 9:21:35 am PDT #25122 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

{{Erin}}

And tons, massive tons of wedding~ma easyfastwayfixingthis~ma is on your way, Pix.

The Talk didn't happen, yet. We let my sister sleep in, and the whole Gilad Shalit video tape was all over the news. So we watched that. Still, it's bound to happen within the next 24 hours, and with my dad's current mood, I kind of fear that.

Oh, and happy Sukkot.


Atropa - Oct 02, 2009 9:24:40 am PDT #25123 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Erin, I am so sorry, and I hope something better comes along soon-ish.

Kristin, it will all work out. It will. and if you need to vent or be talked off the ledge, call me.

Shir, I hope dinner goes smoothly and calmly. And wait, don't I owe you email? I think I do.


sj - Oct 02, 2009 9:26:50 am PDT #25124 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Shir, talk-ma.

Kristin, I just read beep me. Tons of wedding-ma to you.


Shir - Oct 02, 2009 9:29:32 am PDT #25125 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Shir, I hope dinner goes smoothly and calmly. And wait, don't I owe you email? I think I do.

You have no idea how this made me smile. Thank you.