Sean, I guess I'm a little unclear: you told a mutual friend that you were glad about...what? How things were progressing with Date Girl? And then when Date Girl found out that you told mutual friend about your positive feelings, she thought you were telling tales out of school?
Does she not want people to know about your relationship? And if so, why?
Telling someone that you're glad about a relationship is not, by any definition of the phrase, a screw-yourself-up act. That's what people do when a relationship makes them happy. They don't hide it, nor should they.
Why don't more Buffistas come to Salem?
I know! It didn't work out so far, but I am still very hopeful!
It's really okay to tell me I should run now, and go try to find someone more sane.
Before you do that, you should...
Tell her about it
Tell her all your crazy dreams
Let her know you need her
Let her know how much she means
(Sorry)
But my point is maybe you should talk to her first....
Ahem, yes. You've had plenty of crazy of late. You do not need more.
It would have generally ended positively, but then I sent a text to a mutual friend about how glad I was about that, she found out about it, and now is mad at me for telling tales out of school.
I know I have freaky privacy "quirks" but I'd deal with someone mentioning me but kinda cringe if it was at all implying how personal things might have gotten or anything. I think. My privacy quirks are pretty damn quirky though. By which I mean I could use therapy. I'd totally (and have) accept an apology if you did step outside her comfort zone.
