I'm a single undead gal trying to make it in the big city. I have to start somewhere and they're evil here. They don't judge. They've got necro-tempered glass. No burning up. A great medical plan, and who needs dental more than us?

Harmony ,'Conviction (1)'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


SailAweigh - Aug 29, 2009 7:49:54 am PDT #21270 of 30000
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Even without a yard, I insist on having at least one rose bush on my balcony. It dies every winter, but I get enough enjoyment from it that even at $20 for the plant, I think it's worth it.

I went condo and I gotta say, it's a mixed bag when it comes to perks/downsides of condo owning. It's nice not having to worry about shoveling sidewalks, plowing driveways, mowing lawns. But then, by the time you add condo fees to the mortgage, your basic monthly expenses are no different than renting, plus you have to do all your own internal maintenance and repairs. So, there are trade-offs. I'm not big on the outside stuff and I have no problem with replacing wall sockets, plugs, fixtures, basic stuff, so in the long run I'd probably still go the condo route. At least, it gets me a better tax refund, so I'm happy.


StuntHusband - Aug 29, 2009 7:53:24 am PDT #21271 of 30000
Electromagnetic candy! - Stark

I'd love to own a condo with the same total payout I do for my apartment.

I have so much debt, though, and so little income....well, it'll never happen.


Barb - Aug 29, 2009 8:03:54 am PDT #21272 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Okay, Snow Leopard installed and running. I have Seurat as my new wallpaper, but I"m not sure how long that'll last. Don't know if I can take the pointilism 24/7 as it were.


Barb - Aug 29, 2009 8:03:54 am PDT #21273 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Okay, Snow Leopard decided to post twice. Not that interesting.


sj - Aug 29, 2009 8:08:09 am PDT #21274 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I want to own mainly because I want a bit of yard between us and our neighbors. I'm sick of hearing other people's footsteps above me.


Trudy Booth - Aug 29, 2009 8:30:57 am PDT #21275 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I love the stability that comes with owning my own place. In NYC, it's really unusual to have a lease last for more than two years - after that pretty much everyone goes month to month, and you can be kicked out or have your rent skyrocket with basically no warning. With a baby on the way, we didn't feel we could take that risk.

::holds rent stabilized apartment very tightly::

I actually got a three bedroom with roommates so that some day I could have it without roommates. Ah life in NYC.


-t - Aug 29, 2009 8:35:48 am PDT #21276 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

When I was renting I was always acutely aware that my landlord was allowing me to live in a house or apartment that was not really mine. I like owning, even though it doesn't make a whole lot of financial sense (especially the way property values have dropped since I bought, sigh).


Scrappy - Aug 29, 2009 9:06:59 am PDT #21277 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I love owning, even if it does gobble up time and money. Tax benefits are great, but the best part is being able to futz around with the house and yard. Geeky house stuff like putting in attic insulation is very satisfying to me. Researching and planning and doing stuff to the house is my hobby, really.


P.M. Marc - Aug 29, 2009 9:10:38 am PDT #21278 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I have a love/hate relationship with owning.

I should regret buying this place when we did (and buying without having sold the old house previously), but I do love my block all to hell (the neighbors across the street throw awesome parties), and I love my house, and if we ever unload the old place, we will recognize that the payments on this place aren't bad. At the time, they weren't much more than renting a comparable place.


Scrappy - Aug 29, 2009 9:36:04 am PDT #21279 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Speaking of owning, our annual block party is tonight. It's great fun, especially since the couple who own this place [link] live two houses down. I love that our neighborhood has people of all ages and nationalities.