Every planet has its own weird customs. About a year before we met, I spent six weeks on a moon where the principal form of recreation was juggling geese. My hand to God. Baby geese. Goslings. They were juggled.

Wash ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 63: Life after PuppyCam  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Jun 25, 2009 7:38:40 am PDT #25786 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I think it's easier for me to feel, from the outside, a little compassion for someone who legitimately fell in love, rather than just had a little sugar on the side. It does *not* excuse him not coming clean with his wife, and certainly makes the betrayal to *her* that deeper, though.

Yeah, this, I think.


Theodosia - Jun 25, 2009 7:39:20 am PDT #25787 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Good point, javachik -- put that way, I might call it a bigger betrayal*. It seems to me that a marriage/ primary relationship is more likely to be repairable after a tawdry affair(s), but a love affair will mostly likely be a death knell.

*(Sort of like debating whether it's worse to peel a bandaid off slowly or rip it off quick.)


javachik - Jun 25, 2009 7:40:10 am PDT #25788 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

*(Sort of like debating whether it's worse to peel a bandaid off slowly or rip it off quick.)

Ha! Perfect.


Jesse - Jun 25, 2009 7:42:35 am PDT #25789 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I will say that I've had to dial back some of my general judginess about some of this stuff after a friend of mine married a guy she originally got together with when he was still married to someone else. He DEFINITELY should have broken up with the first wife years earlier, and it was 100% shitty that he cheated, but it's been an interesting perspective, being pretty close but not one of the affected parties. (I will say, the first time she had him meet us girlfriends, we were all geared up to hate the slimy cheater, but he actually seemed OK as a person.)


javachik - Jun 25, 2009 7:51:22 am PDT #25790 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

The thing with Sanford is that he was one of the people calling for Clinton's impeachment, and has generally hailed himself as a perfect Christian. I am one of those horrible skeptics who believes that when people get money and power, they tend to use it to get laid. So I pretty much think all politicians *are* cheating. It's when they're sanctimonious hypocrites that I can't abide by them. Or feel sorry for them because they're truly torn over an emotional affair. If he hadn't impeached Clinton, and if he hadn't gone AWOL for 6 days, I wouldn't read one article on the affair.


Dana - Jun 25, 2009 7:53:14 am PDT #25791 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Farrah Fawcett died.


javachik - Jun 25, 2009 7:54:00 am PDT #25792 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I wonder if she and O'Neal were able to marry beforehand.


Jesse - Jun 25, 2009 7:54:49 am PDT #25793 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I am one of those horrible skeptics who believes that when people get money and power, they tend to use it to get laid.

I actually think it's more subtle than that -- I think there's a kind of person who can get money and power by influencing other people/making them like them, and the miscellaneous Clinton-style screwing around is exactly the same thing (to them) as getting the big donations/getting votes. Except, you know, better.


Jesse - Jun 25, 2009 7:55:15 am PDT #25794 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Farrah Fawcett died.

Oh, that's a shame.


tommyrot - Jun 25, 2009 7:57:20 am PDT #25795 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

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