In a case of getting caught with my existential pants down in a major way, I figured out what has been bothering me so much about the Nebraska story.

It was not in my conscious mind at all, but the fact is, I was one of those kids.

After my father was convicted of molesting neighborhood kids, my mother dropped me off at a daycare center and never came back. She took her other three kids and left me behind. My grandmother ultimately 'bought' me from her by paying off the care bills. Gran then delivered me into my father's molesting hands.

I was a cast off kid who, many, many times wished that I'd been cast a bit farther.

So, while I was casting around looking for an answer to how we can, as a society, be of greater use to kids with parents who do not want them, what I should have been saying was, I wish a system like that had been in place for me.

It's weird that I wasn't thinking about myself at all until I got distance from the story.

So yeah, I'm busted.

You're off the hook, Jesse. Burrell said she's going to fill the prescription for me, the dear.

We were in similar colors (orange) but they were not the same. Didn't love the pics, but got enough to give as gifts and cards. $80 worth with a coupon.

Phew. Because I'm pretty sure I'm expected at work tomorrow.

Damn, bonny. I'm sorry you grew up in such a shitstorm.

Damn, bonny. I'm sorry you grew up in such a shitstorm.

Bless you, but I'm totally okay. The thing that really got me about this whole deal is that I was upset about this news story with absolutely no conscious awareness of its connection to my experience.

I wondered why my response to it was so strong, but it took speaking it out loud and getting push-back here that I really dug up the truth about what I was feeling.

My clients get that 'what's underneath this' question all the time but, today, it got turned within.

Interesting.

So, while I was casting around looking for an answer to how we can, as a society, be of greater use to kids with parents who do not want them, what I should have been saying was, I wish a system like that had been in place for me.

I wish it had been in place for you, too, bonny. As well as for the kids who need it today.

The system sucks hard for kids. As bad as they could be, orphanages really can serve a purpose and I hate that our society just stopped them altogether and have so few things around like the Methodist homes and Boys ranches.

OK, now I'm watching the finale of the West Wing, and is it really true that they actually have the movers at the White House during the inauguration ceremonies?? That's bananas. I mean, I guess it makes sense -- you can't kick out the sitting President, and he's in until the minute he's out, but still.

The system sucks hard for kids. As bad as they could be, orphanages really can serve a purpose and I hate that our society just stopped them altogether and have so few things around like the Methodist homes and Boys ranches.

So exactly true.

The pendulum swing away from institutionalization of any kind has not turned out to be much better. Homeless vets and cast off kids. Unfortunate by-products of deregulation.

I'm not an advocate of snake pits, by any means, but the lack of social support for outliers seems to be reaching epic proportions.

Hopefully all this Nebraska stuff might serve as something of a wake-up call that there are so many families out there who are desperate for some sort of solution, that those middle areas really don't exist for most people.