Dude, my boy's a musician.
Yay Nate!
I'll be in my bunk.
Jayne ,'War Stories'
Spike's Bitches 43: Who am I kidding? I love to brag.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Shir - Dec 17, 2008 1:57:07 am PST #4780 of 10000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
Calli - Dec 17, 2008 2:33:09 am PST #4781 of 10000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
Go, Nate!
We have the company holiday party today. My division's new director thinks we'll get work done at it. Hee. Heh heh heh. Such cute optimism. So soon to be crushed.
Barb - Dec 17, 2008 2:46:18 am PST #4782 of 10000
“Not dead yet!”
Thanks guys.
And Calli... are you rubbing your hands together in evil glee?
vw bug - Dec 17, 2008 2:57:32 am PST #4783 of 10000
Mostly lurking...
I went to bed, but not before making a total fool of myself. Oh, well.
He wants to come play with Toto on Thursday. I'm probably going to let him, but will go to the grocery store or something while he's here.
Sparky1 - Dec 17, 2008 3:32:26 am PST #4784 of 10000
Librarian Warlord
((vw)) New boundaries are hard to find, but remember that if one thing doesn't work, you can adjust them.
We have the library party today and the university party, so none of us will be getting any work done between Noon-5 p.m.
vw bug - Dec 17, 2008 3:35:43 am PST #4785 of 10000
Mostly lurking...
My snowflake cupcakes won't come out of the pan! Sad now!
Toddson - Dec 17, 2008 3:37:00 am PST #4786 of 10000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
can you wait until they melt?
vw bug - Dec 17, 2008 3:43:36 am PST #4787 of 10000
Mostly lurking...
Heh. They finally came out, but they don't look so much like snowflakes anymore. Oops.
vw bug - Dec 17, 2008 3:58:14 am PST #4788 of 10000
Mostly lurking...
Ok. I'm stressed about this stupid party because my set-up plans and stuff keep getting thwarted. It'll be fine. I'll figure it out, but I bitched about it to my parents, and they're doing the, "You need to calm down and accept this and work with it. You're getting yourself all stressed out, and you're not going to enjoy it, and blah blah blah." The thing is, I need to VENT, get it out, validate that it's a frustrating situation, then move on to figuring out the plan. And they end up just frustrating me more because they're telling me to calm down when I just need to vent for five minutes.
UGH.
Nora Deirdre - Dec 17, 2008 4:09:02 am PST #4789 of 10000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
I went to bed, but not before making a total fool of myself. Oh, well.
He wants to come play with Toto on Thursday. I'm probably going to let him, but will go to the grocery store or something while he's here.
Oof. Um. Well, you know best what boundaries you need to make but I am a fan of the immediate post-breakup complete radio silence, which gives everyone time to readjust and reorient themselves. It's not permanent, but it helps things from getting all merge-y and mushy out of fuzzy boundaries and loneliness. (I am speaking generally- YMMV)
I have other specific thoughts that I will not air for two reasons: 1) it's none of my freaking business and 2) it's a public forum.