This is what I'm saying. Hey, at least we know we can cry on each other's shoulders while bacon is off having smoochies and doing crime.
Wow. Sentence you never imagined yourself writing, meet posting box.
Monty: Whaddya mean she ain't my wife? Mal: She ain't your wife... cause she's married to me.
'Trash'
Spike's Bitches 43: Who am I kidding? I love to brag.
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JenP - Dec 11, 2008 5:36:19 pm PST #4198 of 10000
javachik - Dec 11, 2008 5:44:27 pm PST #4199 of 10000
Our wings are not tired.
I spoke up because I sensed that VW was feeling torn; that maybe she wanted to still give the gifts, but maybe felt like she couldn't lest the world think her improper or succumbing to the whims of her insensitive ex.
I fully get feeling protective of her and the grrrr, totally. I just think all of the feelings aren't mutually exclusive, that's all.
Aims - Dec 11, 2008 5:53:47 pm PST #4200 of 10000
Shit's all sorts of different now.
A moment of mourning ... Bettie Page died. [link]
beth b - Dec 11, 2008 6:02:52 pm PST #4201 of 10000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
I'm on the give them if you feel like it side. I assume you liked them - and what else would you do with the gifts?
Anne W. - Dec 11, 2008 6:06:32 pm PST #4202 of 10000
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.
vw, I've been very impressed with how you've been approaching this whole situation. I just wish I were closer to offer support, hugs, company, etc.
Anne W. - Dec 11, 2008 6:08:50 pm PST #4203 of 10000
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.
In other news, I have four mini fruitcakes looking for homes this year. Two with nuts, two without. If interested, please ping me at my profile addy. Be sure to let me know your nut/nutless preference. First come, first served, of course.
omnis_audis - Dec 11, 2008 6:38:38 pm PST #4204 of 10000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
VW I wish I was in Austin, and not just for CrazyBlindDate. Funny, I keep thinking CBD is CarrotBaconDude. Either way, I agree with the sentiment. Bacon is Good! Aside from that, you are wise. So do what you think best.
WindSparrow - Dec 11, 2008 7:18:31 pm PST #4205 of 10000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Maybe we are all head-explodey, but I really think it is far more important in this thread to support each other than to give the benefit of the doubt to those who make our heads explode.
I support both the supportive-being, and the multiple perspectives-giving, with the proviso that any given person needing support and/or perspectives is encouraged to ask for and get what they need more of at any given time.
WindSparrow - Dec 11, 2008 7:21:59 pm PST #4206 of 10000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
{{{{vw}}}}
I've said it before, I'll say it again: Water seeks its own level.
Clearly you and CBD are not on the same level, as evinced by the quality of support systems you each attract.
omnis_audis - Dec 11, 2008 8:09:33 pm PST #4207 of 10000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
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