Everyone's getting spanked but me.

Willow ,'The Killer In Me'


F2F5: I forget that everyone isn't us

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon.


brenda m - Apr 23, 2010 8:58:37 am PDT #5706 of 12708
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Sounds good to me.


javachik - Apr 23, 2010 9:05:00 am PDT #5707 of 12708
Our wings are not tired.

(and I hated to type that, because I know it probably means PixKristin won't be able to make it, and she's been one of the forces behind us actually having a F2F this year)


Pix - Apr 23, 2010 9:12:02 am PDT #5708 of 12708
The status is NOT quo.

(and I hated to type that, because I know it probably means PixKristin won't be able to make it, and she's been one of the forces behind us actually having a F2F this year)

No, we need to do what is best for the most people. Besides, I'll be in the New England/New York area from June 14th-July 2nd, so I'm sure I'll get a chance to see localistas somewhere in there. I was also lucky enough to see many of my dear Buffistas at our reception.

Final survey results were: Yes 9
Probably 5
There's a small chance 10
No 21

There's no point in reserving rooms at a hotel for 14 people, especially since many would be doubling up. If you all want to wrangle a new date, I say go for it...but rather than starting over again, I would default to the next weekend in our original polls, July 10-11 and then vote NYC vs. Providence. I'll set up a poll to that effect if you want me to.


SailAweigh - Apr 23, 2010 9:23:32 am PDT #5709 of 12708
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

sj, you're doing great! Seriously, very few of us have professional experience at this to know exactly the right questions to ask. And it's amazing how many hotel people are lame as all get out. The crap I had to deal with during the Madison F2F was enormous. It's not just you that this stuff is/has happened to and it will happen again to others. The cool thing about Buffistas is that you tell them where to be, provide the booze and they are happy as hell that someone else did it all. Win-win.


Pix - Apr 23, 2010 9:29:43 am PDT #5710 of 12708
The status is NOT quo.

I also need to bow out of this for awhile. I'm dealing with a bunch of personal/professional stuff right now and don't have time to follow up the way I have been. Anyone can use Survey Monkey; it's easy.


javachik - Apr 23, 2010 9:33:21 am PDT #5711 of 12708
Our wings are not tired.

Thanks for everything you've done, Pix!!


sj - Apr 23, 2010 9:49:19 am PDT #5712 of 12708
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Kristin, that is the other weekend that is bad for Providence. I would set up a poll, but I am on cell. Can someone else do it? Maybe a question of how many people are interested in changing the date and then how many could attend at various dates?


sj - Apr 23, 2010 11:43:34 am PDT #5713 of 12708
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm home now, and have posted a quick poll in Press.


Trudy Booth - Apr 23, 2010 2:51:25 pm PDT #5714 of 12708
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

My only hesitancies with changing the date are that a) its already the end of April and b) we may have gone beyond the attention span of a large group at this point.

If we get a strong "Let's Move It!" response, great. But if we don't get that response... Or if its a weak response...

It seems like (and I say this as a person who's Father may yet take her out of comission that weekend so its hardly optimum for me) we should stay put at the weekend agreed upon. We hearded the cats to this point and this is the point the cats reached.

Here is how we could do a dozen-or-so people F2F:

Check Orbitz for a cheap/decent hotel. (Orbitz rates are certainly comparable to and often cheaper than a block.)

Book rooms individually

Someone book a suite. It can be our meeting spot. (I'll even be the person with the big room -- I don't think any of you are going to swipe my stuff and I'll just leave the diamonds at home. If my Dad uncharacteristically comes through we'll deal.) People can chip in some money to the person with the big room. Maybe we can all chip in enough to keep it the extra day.

We can bring in whatever food and booze for a dozen people that we want. We're not booking together and we don't look like a pack of frat boys -- they will not know or care.

Saturday night we get dressed up and go out. Our after-party in the room is unlikely to cause any drama with only a dozen or so people and if we get a noise complaint from the desk we'll just keep it down.

A small group for the F2F has its merits. We'll get to see everybody and we just don't have to plan that hard.


sj - Apr 23, 2010 3:11:11 pm PDT #5715 of 12708
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Trudy, I agree it should be a big response in order to change the date. So far we have 10 responses, I am hoping for a lot more than that.