Faith: A kid. Angel's got a kid. Wesley: Connor. Faith: A teenage kid born last year. Wesley: I told you, he grew up in a hell dimension. Faith: Right. And what, Cordelia spent her last summer as… Wesley: A divine being. Faith: Uh-huh. Can I just ask--What the hell are you people doing?

'Why We Fight'


F2F5: I forget that everyone isn't us

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon.


Shir - May 15, 2024 8:28:41 pm PDT #12592 of 12685
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Yay, Laura! And best of luck with the time difference. My phone number is in my profile.


javachik - May 15, 2024 8:52:28 pm PDT #12593 of 12685
Our wings are not tired.

I think I’m staying at the Hyatt at the airport because I’ve got very sick friends and now family I need to also see this weekend, so my planned carless quick trip to the Bay has turned into a must have a car to drive out to Tracy and down to Palo Alto and then to Oakland and back to the airport. All on Sunday. But I’ve reserved Saturday for y’all.*

  • unless my uncle Al, who decided yesterday to stop his dialysis and is now in hospice, worsens even more quickly than we expect, in which case I may need to drive to Tracy to see him Saturday night.

My bleak mantra these days has been that I’ve now entered the time of life where instead of Four Weddings and a Funeral, it’s….yeah you get the picture.


Laura - May 15, 2024 9:09:01 pm PDT #12594 of 12685
Our wings are not tired.

Yikes, javachik, that's a lot. I hope things are smoother than anticipated.


Shir - May 15, 2024 9:35:45 pm PDT #12595 of 12685
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Oof, javachik, that is indeed a lot. A lot of ~ma, and looking forward to seeing you this Saturday.


brenda m - May 15, 2024 11:13:05 pm PDT #12596 of 12685
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Glad we’ll get to see you. This is definitely feeling like a less fun new phase of life.

Pencil me in for dinner tomorrow Shir and Laura. I should hit the hotel midafternoon.


Laura - May 16, 2024 8:04:49 am PDT #12597 of 12685
Our wings are not tired.

Getting ready to walk to Cable Car Coffee for breakfast. Coffee in hotel room was very tasty, and I even figured out how to use the machine first try! Very nice room. Slept so well. The Line gets an excellent review so far.

Other than coordinating dinner tonight with Shir, anything on people's to do list? Baseball? Any ideas? We are in pretty chill mode, but open to anything.

Also, I should mention that someone (Vortex) has a birthday tomorrow. Not sure if she has plans yet.


brenda m - May 16, 2024 8:18:10 am PDT #12598 of 12685
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Boarding my flight! I do not have nine pairs of shoes (I think. Don’t hold me to that). But Steph did save me from a critical boot shortage.


brenda m - May 16, 2024 8:20:48 am PDT #12599 of 12685
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

If you can’t tell, I have fully converted to checked bags for direct, non-business travel.


Steph L. - May 16, 2024 8:22:17 am PDT #12600 of 12685
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

My flight gets in tomorrow early afternoon, so count me in for dinner and/or rooftop bar shenanigans. (Although I will probably nap as soon as I get to the hotel, because I have to drag myself out of bed at the stupid-early [for me] hour of 6 a.m.)


Steph L. - May 16, 2024 8:27:11 am PDT #12601 of 12685
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

But Steph did save me from a critical boot shortage.

Picture my cape flapping in the wind as I look down from my perch for other imminent travelers who need packing guidance.

My big question is: do I want to wear the same dress all day Saturday? And I feel like the answer is yes (it's a pretty dress and it's stupid comfortable without being a t-shirt dress that might also be a nightshirt). I dunno. I guess I'll try on Potential Memorial Dress one more time to see if I really want to pack it.