A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


F2F5: I forget that everyone isn't us

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon.


Shir - May 20, 2014 9:10:58 am PDT #10465 of 12685
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Oh, Buffistas. I had such a lovely time in Chicago, with tommyrot, shrift, aurelia, dcp, Sail, and of course, brenda, who was a wonderful host (and her dog, being so patient with me taking over her room). I loved the art, hanging around, the food, and play, and most of all - just being with Buffistas. I had the best of times.

I'm now at O'hare with ~4 hours to burn before my flight (come say hi if you want), so I have time to rethink and wrap it up.

I don't have enough words to thank you for your generosity, hospitality, guidance, patience, humor, as well as feeding me, and showing me around. That sneaky, simple "I'm going to see my friends" notion I had in mind is far from being simple or taken for granted, especially when all of the people I saw on this trip were online friends. You were all wonderful and fun to meet face to face. I had so many moments of “woah. You’re not pixels”, and it turns out I imagined so many of your quite differently than how you look/ sound like in real life. I feel so incredibly lucky to have you in my life, and for the opportunity to have this trip between my jobs. I also feels like I’ve had enough rest, despite losing many hours of sleep on my way here. A huge chunk of me is missing Jerusalem, but I can't help but feeling sad to leave - I leave so many friends behind.

I’d like to thank again to meara, Gar, Kristin, Drew, BC, kat, Epic, Nora, smonster, another Nora, tommyrot, shrift, aurelia, dcp, Sail, brenda, and all the people you introduced me to as well (if I forgot anybody, I'm so very sorry). All of you, as well as all Buffista people, will be welcome in Jerusalem in any time. Thank you all for being you.

Next time, it’ll be the East Coast tour. I promise.

love and gratitude


omnis_audis - May 20, 2014 9:17:56 am PDT #10466 of 12685
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

It was great seeing you too! Safe travels home.


tommyrot - May 20, 2014 9:25:10 am PDT #10467 of 12685
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

It was great finally getting to meet you, Shir. Thanks for that lovely post.


Typo Boy - May 20, 2014 9:27:52 am PDT #10468 of 12685
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

It was wonderful getting to meet you Shir. It retrospect I think I dragged you to see too many sights and did not leave enough time for conversation.


meara - May 20, 2014 11:59:19 am PDT #10469 of 12685

So the BFF and her wife and I are thinking of New Orleans for Thanksgiving. Can any of our folk there recommend neighborhoods/locations to stay, or stay away from? We are thinking airbnb, and I was thinking something on the streetcar. No particular plans, though BFF loves architecture tours, and mostly we would probably eat a lot. ;)


Polter-Cow - May 20, 2014 12:17:12 pm PDT #10470 of 12685
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

I don't know if you've heard about beignets...


Nora Deirdre - May 20, 2014 12:32:11 pm PDT #10471 of 12685
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I'd recommend a B&B on Prytania Street in the Lower Garden District or on Elysian Fields in the Marigny.

Heh, airbnb. It's all controversial down here right now, regular B&Bs and hotels are pissed. Plus, technically it's illegal.


Polter-Cow - May 20, 2014 12:33:46 pm PDT #10472 of 12685
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Is it? I'm trying it out for the first time in Paris.


Nora Deirdre - May 20, 2014 1:04:20 pm PDT #10473 of 12685
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

It is in New Orleans (or in specific neighborhoods in New Orleans), it probably isn't in other places. New Orleans prohibits short term leasing (I think less than 60 days?) [link]


Hil R. - May 20, 2014 1:35:28 pm PDT #10474 of 12685
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

There have been a few legal challenges to airbnb in New York, too. I'm not sure what the current status is.