Saffron: But we've been wed. Aren't we to become one flesh? Mal: Well, no, uh... We're still two fleshes here, and I think that your flesh ought to sleep somewhere else.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Spike's Bitches 42: Which question do you want me to answer first?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Sophia Brooks - Aug 12, 2008 6:11:32 am PDT #1172 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Oh Barb- I am so sorry about the fuck-up-ed-ness of your manuscript(s) handling.

My big thing is that I keep telling people who say things like "She was soo enormous that she must have weight 200 POUNDS" that I weigh more than 200 pounds, and then they do the "but YOUR not fat!" thing, but of course I am fat, I can just do things like walk, which seems to be what people think 200 pounds is!


hippocampus - Aug 12, 2008 6:15:21 am PDT #1173 of 10001
not your mom's socks.

so I could meet Chicago Bob's people.

this deserves commenting, exclamation points, et. al, no?


Jessica - Aug 12, 2008 6:16:08 am PDT #1174 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

"Don't SAY that! You're not nearsighted, you just don't see faraway things as well as other people...."

HEY! We in the myopic community prefer "retinally challenged."


vw bug - Aug 12, 2008 6:16:24 am PDT #1175 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Barb, thank you for the info! I've forwarded to my friend, and she's very excited to check them out!

So 4 hours sleep tops before meeting the boyfriend's folks. EEP! BUT! It all went well! They seemed to like me. And I'm sure the same will be true for you, vw!

YAY!

Teppy, it sounds like you've done with "Fat" what I've done with "BPD" or "Mental Illness." I should work on having that same attitude with "Fat."


Jessica - Aug 12, 2008 6:17:21 am PDT #1176 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

OMFG, the "Search only in this folder" option in Outlook 2007 is fucking GREYED OUT. WHAT THE FUCKING FUCK, EMPLOYER?????


WindSparrow - Aug 12, 2008 6:21:09 am PDT #1177 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I wish I could accept my fat. I don't. I hate it. I hate looking down and seeing it. I hate seeing it in the mirror so much that there have been times when I get ready for work with the lights off, avoiding even the shadows in the mirror. I feel like I have been imprisoned in this body, but I can't figure out what my crime was, because if it were overeating or lack of exercise, it would have to go away after the lots of dieting and lots of exercise that I have in the past done. I'm tired of being fat. I've been fat for almost four decades, and I'm sick of it. But there is no point in lifting a finger against it, because I'm even more tired of working really, really hard only to end up ... still way too fat. At my thinnest, I'm too fat to be a plus-size model. I'm too fat to volunteer for reputable clinical trials of weight loss treatments. Well, ok, maybe I could still volunteer, but the clinicians would reject, because I'm too fat. Feel free to ignore the rant.


lisah - Aug 12, 2008 6:21:41 am PDT #1178 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

this deserves commenting, exclamation points, et. al, no?

Sure! it was totally fine! The midwest is funny. I got to cross 2 more states off my list. I said something (i don't remember what...sleep deprived) that made his mom exclaim "I LIKE this girl!"

He's possibly meeting a stitload of my people in a couple of weeks at my birthday party. And then he's driving to NC with me to stay with my brother and family there (where we'll have to pretend to be sleeping separately, good times!) I think he's up for the challenge.


d - Aug 12, 2008 6:21:48 am PDT #1179 of 10001
It's nice to see some brave pretenders trying to make it interesting.

I need to get dressed and go to the gym to work out but I wanna watch the olympics! Dilemma.


lisah - Aug 12, 2008 6:23:58 am PDT #1180 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

I need to get dressed and go to the gym to work out but I wanna watch the olympics! Dilemma

Will they have it on the tv at the gym? That would be ideal.

I'm thinking I have to join a gym again. I just can't get motivated to run and I'm doing a freaking marathon in January.


d - Aug 12, 2008 6:27:24 am PDT #1181 of 10001
It's nice to see some brave pretenders trying to make it interesting.

No, it's the tiny college gym and no tv or music.

I need to be working out because I've had not good training sessions and 2nd tri is about a month away. Worried I'm not going to finish it, actually.