I only have one first cousin. My father is an only child, and my mom's sister only has one son. As for second cousins, they're all older than me, ranging from about a year older to close to 30 years older. I see some of them a few times a year or so, and others I've only met once or twice.

Oh, Jesse, I hope the rest of today treats you well enough that it'd be OK for you to be there.

I have 38 first cousins

I have 32 on my Dad's side of the family. Give or take a few.

A few days ago, one of my second cousins friended me on facebook. I see her younger brother every once in a while -- he lives closer to my parents than to his own parents, so we sometimes see him at holidays when he can't get home -- but I don't think I've talked to her in about 15 years.

I have 6 first cousins- 2 on my mom's side and 4 on my dad's side.

passes chocolate to Jesse

Ah, thanks! Thanks, Nilly. It will be fine. I've already had one meeting cancelled today, so that's a start...

I have 32 on my Dad's side of the family. Give or take a few.

Holy cow!

So funny you guys were talking about my friend's house for sale here over the weekend! It is super cute! And a real bargain.

I'm having trouble getting adjusted to this working thing again. Why exactly can't I be a full time rock star? Aside from only being able to stay up all night one night in a row.

I have 38 first cousins, and some of them I've only met once or twice. This guy, I think, is from the family of 15, most of which I have only met once.

I have 52 first cousins. Both my parents were from families of 12 kids.

I have 38 first cousins

On my mom's side, I have more cousins than Sue's (I'm honestly unable to give the exact number, how embarrassing - it's just that one aunt, my mom's eldest sister, is in less contact with the rest of the family, and her children are a generation or two older than me, and I have no idea how many there are. I may have met her twice in my entire life, and I'm pretty sure I've never met some of her children).

Then, some of those first cousins are already in their fifties or older, so some of them have children around my age.

Then, there are the children's of my mom's cousins - with some of them my mom and her siblings kept in touch even more than with that older sister whose children I can't number, so there's also them. Though clearly I have no idea how many of those there are, since I only know the ones my mom's immediate family kept in touch with.

Then, there are the even more distant cousins, who became related in a closer way through marriage to closer cousins (small Jewish communities in the midst of other-religions countries created many times what may seem as a marrying-distant-relatives habit). I stopped following long before that.

Nilly, I have the same issue with the age gap with my cousins. My father was the youngest of 12, so his oldest brother was a grandfather when I was born. I have second cousins my age.

That number of 52 was my last count and it is probably off by a few, that I can't remember. My dad's family is not close, but Mom's family is very close--I'm closer to some of HER cousins than some of mine on my dad's side.