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Connor ,'Not Fade Away'


Natter 59: Dominate Your Face!  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Toddson - Jun 12, 2008 9:54:54 am PDT #2827 of 10003
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

In traveling, going to the theater, and so on, I'm sometimes put off by what people think is appropriate to wear. For flying, I'll wear cotton pants and a cotton shirt and carry a sweater. I usually wear sneakers, but that's because I have my arch supports in them.

But! even just running to the grocery, my clothes are usually clean. Not torn. Not obviously dirty.

I think everyone's stopped dressing up for things, which is kind of a shame. I've seen people at the Kennedy Center in ratty shorts, t-shirt (or wifebeater), and flip-flops. And, usually, grubby feet. Is it really that much of an effort to put on clean clothes, ones that are nicer than what you'd wear to wash your car or clean the gutters?

And one thing I've noticed, when people bring in pictures of their kids at their proms - they have no idea how to deal with being dressed up. It's like there's one time a year when they get all fixed up, and the rest of the time, it's grubbies.


flea - Jun 12, 2008 9:57:58 am PDT #2828 of 10003
information libertarian

An old friend is putting college photos up on Facebook. Here is me 15 years ago (in holey jeans, just to remain on topic): [link]

God I have gotten old.


bon bon - Jun 12, 2008 9:58:15 am PDT #2829 of 10003
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

I don't think people who hate flip-flops are alone in their dislike -- there seems to be a healthy hatred out there for them. I guess it's because of hygiene? But I don't eat with my feet. They're feet. Shoes aren't significantly cleaner. I guess I'm a dirty person, but I really don't like being shoed. I'm barefoot right now!

Some people are irrational about this-- if that is the Erin post I am thinking of, someone in the comments said that syphilis was found on the TSA mats, implying that flip flop wearers are in danger of contracting syphilis through their feet.


amych - Jun 12, 2008 10:01:23 am PDT #2830 of 10003
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

flea, I think you look very much the same, only now you're better dressed.


lisah - Jun 12, 2008 10:01:30 am PDT #2831 of 10003
Punishingly Intricate

Here is me 15 years ago (in holey jeans, just to remain on topic)

Cute! those jeans are so totally from 1993! (and you remain younger than me so, NOT OLD!)

Some people are irrational about this-- if that is the Erin post I am thinking of, someone in the comments said that syphilis was found on the TSA mats, implying that flip flop wearers are in danger of contracting syphilis through their feet.

jesus. people. I bet those are the kind of people who hover over clean public toilet seats (thus getting them wet and ruining it for normal people).


Kat - Jun 12, 2008 10:01:58 am PDT #2832 of 10003
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

I have to say that I looked pretty freaking cute in the outfit I wore on the plane going from SF to Chicago last weekend.

And I'm sure it was appreciated appropriately!

I wouldn't wear flip flops on a plane because my feet get cold.

I also don't wear heels on a plane because my feet get cold and unless I'm wearing tights, my feet are bare in heels. Also, I read something about not being in nylons (or most synthetic fabrics) and heels when planes go down in a flaming wreck. Sure if my plane crashes I have other issues. But on the off chance that I survive, I don't want to either puncture the little slide to get out with cute stilletos nor do I want to deal with burns due to synthetic fabrics.

Perhaps I am overthinking this?


meara - Jun 12, 2008 10:03:14 am PDT #2833 of 10003

What's funny, flea, is that not only do you not look very different, I swear that other girl in the picture (who's ID'd) looks really familiar (except her name is not).

I fly most weeks, these days. Jeans work for me. (Though yes, it's with a nice top, because often I have to mix and match for the rest of the trip with my business casual clothes)

My head hurts. Not quite a headache. Certainly not a migraine. Yet. I am debating whether I should take meds (which are running out, and expensive), or just hope it does not blossom into a migraine.


Jesse - Jun 12, 2008 10:03:17 am PDT #2834 of 10003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

flea, I think you look very much the same, only now you're better dressed.

Ditto.


juliana - Jun 12, 2008 10:04:21 am PDT #2835 of 10003
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Also, I read something about not being in nylons or heels (or most synthetic fabrics) when planes go down in a flaming wreck

Very true, for it will melt and encase you in flame-y fabric. Leather is bad as well, due to the shrinkage issue. Flat boots or shoes - always good.


Daisy Jane - Jun 12, 2008 10:04:28 am PDT #2836 of 10003
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

I bet those are the kind of people who hover over clean public toilet seats (thus getting them wet and ruining it for normal people).

HATE!