Angel: Is that what you think you are--a hero? Spike: Saved the world didn't I? Angel: Once. Talk to me after you've done it a couple more times.

'Destiny'


Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Susan W. - Aug 05, 2008 10:28:10 am PDT #9867 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Much ~ma to you and yours, Scrappy.


P.M. Marc - Aug 05, 2008 10:31:51 am PDT #9868 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Oh, Scrappy. How horrible.

I'm finding a combination of techniques from Positive Discipline for Preschoolers (I think that's the title) and 1-2-3 Magic.

Works fairly well. We do a lot of the races to do things and the whole, "Oh-oh! Did you forget how to put on shoes? I think Lillian forgot how!" discussing.

The Positive Discipline book is very good for modeling behaviors and for cooling your own self down when getting stressed.


JZ - Aug 05, 2008 10:41:53 am PDT #9869 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Much, much ~ma to you and your DH and all his family, Scrappy. How awful for all of you.


Scrappy - Aug 05, 2008 10:47:41 am PDT #9870 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Thanks for the ~ma, everyone. DH seems to be fairly calm about this and it helps that one BiL is a long-time sober addict and has more than a decade of working as a sponsor in AA and NA.

ION, I love all the parenting advice here. Always does the heart good to see how generous Buffistas are with each other.


hippocampus - Aug 05, 2008 10:48:41 am PDT #9871 of 10001
not your mom's socks.

am ordering us some positiveToddlerDiscipline books now.

{{{Scrappy & DH & Family}}}

Aims - so glad the outcome was ok - was vibing for your friend.

am floppy and tireds. and need groceries and hot water (the pilot light went out while we were gone. groceries include matches.)


Scrappy - Aug 05, 2008 10:51:14 am PDT #9872 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Scrappy - Aug 05, 2008 10:52:59 am PDT #9873 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Well, I don't love it THAT much!


Glamcookie - Aug 05, 2008 11:03:34 am PDT #9874 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

That's a tough one, Scrappy. Much ~ma that it resolves well and quickly.

This morning when I was leaving for work, Momo (new kitten who now weighs a whopping 3 lbs.) was on the cat condo. I went over to give a quick skritch goodbye but the Mo had other plans. She meowed and purred and snuggled against my arm and put her little paws on my stomach and. and. So we had a little lovefest and I didn't want to leave and come to work. The end.


lisah - Aug 05, 2008 11:15:09 am PDT #9875 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

oh, Scrappy, I'm sorry your DH's family is going through that. I hope it resolves quickly and positively.

Momo (new kitten who now weighs a whopping 3 lbs.)

My big cat weighs about 8 times that. good lord.


Sparky1 - Aug 05, 2008 11:20:13 am PDT #9876 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

I hope he turns up soon, Scrappy. ~ma to you and yours.

Sox, just have the groceries delivered.

smonster, surgery~ma for your friend.