Sean, DJ is wise.
Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Trust me, having someone tell you they can't be with you sucks, but having them say nothing and then get married without telling you? Far worse.
ETA: Which is to say, yeah it hurts, but guess which one left me emotionally scarred and which one I leave random text messages for with inside jokes like "Raisins and Toast!"
Word and word.
{Sean} & {s}
If you decided it needed to end, then the fact that you decided that confirms that it was the right decision. Telling her honestly and in person was the right thing to do. You did the right thing in a mature way. And that always hurts more in the short term, but save pain for everyone in the long run.
Sean, I'm very sorry for the both of you. I agree with the others, it's so hard being the one to end a relationship; it means a lot that you ended it honestly.
(((Sean))) I'm letting DJ speak for me. The hugs are mine, and I'll be thinking of you.
Sean, I'm very sorry for the both of you. I agree with the others, it's so hard being the one to end a relationship; it means a lot that you ended it honestly.
Very rough. {{{{{{{{{{Sean}}}}}}}}}}
Oh, Sean. I wish I could do or say *anything* that would make you feel better, even a tiny bit.
Go to Drew and Kristin's, honey. It'll help.
Sean, I'm home alone for the next few days, so please feel free to come stay. I could use the company, too.
Sean, go to Kristin & Drew's. You should also firm-up your plans about visiting Seattle, too.
Thanks everyone. I know what you all say is true. I still hurt all over and deep down, and feel like I've been punched very hard in the gut. I feel like I want to throw up. But I love you all.
For now I'm just trying to focus on work.