But I don't want to start out on that foot with Broseph and F-MiL.
OTOH, you may want to establish that you won't be manipulated by their petty squabbles. If you put your foot down now, it will quash that kind of crap, like "oh, you can't bring your famous apple pie to Thanksgiving because Broseph doesn't like apples. We have three other desserts, but why don't you make something else"
I also find it ironic that he's forgiven the woman who cheated on him, but not the random dude that it happened with (unless Broseph and PP were tight)
he forgave the Gladiatrix
See, that's ridiculous. I hold grudges, but they're MY grudges, not grudges I expect the entire world to support me in.
I think my response would be, "Okay, since you can't suck it up for a few hours, I'm not inviting PP. I hope you understand that I will be using you as a role model, and holding a massive grudge against you for the next decade. Also, don't get us a wedding gift -- spend it on therapy."
It's inappropriate to make demands on *us*. We shouldn't have any problems inviting whomever we want to OUR g-d wedding.
I know I am all WASPy and everything, but, the asshole who has basically promised to start a fight in public at an event that is not about him is the asshole who wakes up the morning of the event in question with his testicles stuffed down his throat. Not in the fun, un-amputated way.
Okay, I am not that WASPy.
I think I might have an obsession with the fetish. Because I am trying to investigate it again!
Hee hee! I know, dude, I just can't let the toy boat thing go.
Its like a fetish fetish.
Timelies all!
Sorry you have to deal with this crap, bon bon.
A rat?
I tend to think of rats as a punk pet....
Oppossums would make good punk pets.
Was the toy boat thing back on Salon? Because then I feel old. Of course, there will always be kprinkle, which happened way back when my job was so easy that I actually had time to make a spreadsheet to try and help. Hmmm Now I am feeling nostalgic, even though I make a lot more money!