Having a relationship would be nice, but I'd never subject anyone to my crazy on that level
Having a good relationship means that your own crazy meshes well or nicely balances the other person's crazy. Trust me, I speak from experience here.
Take jobs as they come -- and we'll never be under the heel of nobody ever again. No matter how long the arm of the Alliance might get, we'll just get ourselves a little further.
Mal ,'Out Of Gas'
Natter 58: Let's call Venezuela!
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Atropa - Apr 11, 2008 11:01:19 am PDT #1214 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
Atropa - Apr 11, 2008 11:02:54 am PDT #1215 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
But it's not the sort of thing where I could put the wires back if taking them out made things worse...
The underwires are in a curved casing under the bust, right? Snip a tiny hole in one end of each casing (I would pick the ends close to the armpits, just because), and then push the underwires out of the holes.
megan walker - Apr 11, 2008 11:07:16 am PDT #1216 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist
Unreasonably high standards are only unreasonable to the point where they're making you more miserable than the alternative.
This is very important I think. I know many people for whom just being in a couple makes them happier than being alone and so that becomes a factor. That's just never been an issue for me.
Yet, I don't think I've ever left someone because I thought that I would be "settling" otherwise, or because I thought I could get someone "better." It's almost always been an issue of fundamental compatability or happiness.
Glamcookie - Apr 11, 2008 11:11:56 am PDT #1217 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Having a good relationship means that your own crazy meshes well or nicely balances the other person's crazy.
What she said.
tommyrot - Apr 11, 2008 11:17:44 am PDT #1218 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
This stupid day will never end. So I'm going to cheat, and make it end. By leaving work early.
It's been a long week, and I'm all worn out....
Sean K - Apr 11, 2008 11:20:06 am PDT #1219 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Having a good relationship means that your own crazy meshes well or nicely balances the other person's crazy.
Heh. I very much agree with this as well, however it amuses me because I frequently find S's crazy doesn't always mesh well with mine. In fact, in many ways our crazies are not very compatible with each other, and we can easily make each other unhappy quickly.
But we love each other enough to try to work around that.
bon bon - Apr 11, 2008 11:20:55 am PDT #1220 of 10001
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.
Having a good relationship means that your own crazy meshes well or nicely balances the other person's crazy. Trust me, I speak from experience here.
Yeah, there's just as many dudes who are saying that they don't want to subject their crazy on on someone else.
Polter-Cow - Apr 11, 2008 11:25:21 am PDT #1221 of 10001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
Got it, got it, don't got it, on my wishlist, hmm...
I would recommend Morcheeba's "The Sea." Great song.
Fred Pete - Apr 11, 2008 11:25:48 am PDT #1222 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.
Having a good relationship means that your own crazy meshes well or nicely balances the other person's crazy. Trust me, I speak from experience here.
Or at the very least, knowing when to get out of the way of the other person's crazy.
§ ita § - Apr 11, 2008 11:26:04 am PDT #1223 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
Having a good relationship means that your own crazy meshes well or nicely balances the other person's crazy.
Enh. There's also feeling like you're a complete emotional dead weight with nothing to offer, and just a big ball of need need need. Doesn't put me in a pairing mood.