Liese, that is a destination house. You're done now. You have the house. Cool.
Having a relationship would be nice, but I'd never subject anyone to my crazy on that level
Yeah, that.
Glory: Lesson number one, Vampires equal impure! Spike: Damn right I'm impure, I'm as impure as the driven yellow snow!
'Dirty Girls'
Natter 58: Let's call Venezuela!
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
§ ita § - Apr 11, 2008 10:57:25 am PDT #1211 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
flea - Apr 11, 2008 10:57:34 am PDT #1212 of 10001
information libertarian
oh, I have a bra-related question. I ordered a bathing suit online. Due to unfortunate incidents that occurred while I was trying it on, I can't return it. It actually fits pretty well, except it has underwire cups that are situated wrong for my breasts - I am built far apart and the suit is built close together. What is the advisability of me attempting to surgically remove the underwires with a seam-ripper? It would still have a sort of shelf-bra-like elastic band below the bust, and I am not over-endowed so i don't really need the support. But it's not the sort of thing where I could put the wires back if taking them out made things worse...
Cashmere - Apr 11, 2008 11:00:20 am PDT #1213 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.
One actual good one that I can't use in yoga because of the way the underwires are designed (they come up the middle and dig into my throat when I'm doing plow or any other pose where I'm bending my head towards my chest).
Oh, I TOTALLY get that all the time. Breathing in recycled cleavage air is no fun.
Atropa - Apr 11, 2008 11:01:19 am PDT #1214 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
Having a relationship would be nice, but I'd never subject anyone to my crazy on that level
Having a good relationship means that your own crazy meshes well or nicely balances the other person's crazy. Trust me, I speak from experience here.
Atropa - Apr 11, 2008 11:02:54 am PDT #1215 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
But it's not the sort of thing where I could put the wires back if taking them out made things worse...
The underwires are in a curved casing under the bust, right? Snip a tiny hole in one end of each casing (I would pick the ends close to the armpits, just because), and then push the underwires out of the holes.
megan walker - Apr 11, 2008 11:07:16 am PDT #1216 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist
Unreasonably high standards are only unreasonable to the point where they're making you more miserable than the alternative.
This is very important I think. I know many people for whom just being in a couple makes them happier than being alone and so that becomes a factor. That's just never been an issue for me.
Yet, I don't think I've ever left someone because I thought that I would be "settling" otherwise, or because I thought I could get someone "better." It's almost always been an issue of fundamental compatability or happiness.
Glamcookie - Apr 11, 2008 11:11:56 am PDT #1217 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Having a good relationship means that your own crazy meshes well or nicely balances the other person's crazy.
What she said.
tommyrot - Apr 11, 2008 11:17:44 am PDT #1218 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
This stupid day will never end. So I'm going to cheat, and make it end. By leaving work early.
It's been a long week, and I'm all worn out....
Sean K - Apr 11, 2008 11:20:06 am PDT #1219 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Having a good relationship means that your own crazy meshes well or nicely balances the other person's crazy.
Heh. I very much agree with this as well, however it amuses me because I frequently find S's crazy doesn't always mesh well with mine. In fact, in many ways our crazies are not very compatible with each other, and we can easily make each other unhappy quickly.
But we love each other enough to try to work around that.
bon bon - Apr 11, 2008 11:20:55 am PDT #1220 of 10001
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.
Having a good relationship means that your own crazy meshes well or nicely balances the other person's crazy. Trust me, I speak from experience here.
Yeah, there's just as many dudes who are saying that they don't want to subject their crazy on on someone else.