Not bad. It only took 30 minutes for today to be On The List.
Get up...get up, you stupid piece of... What did you do that for? What's wrong with you? Didn't you hear a word he said? All of you! You think there's someone just going to drop money on you?! Money they could use?! Well, there ain't people like that. There's just people like me.
Jayne ,'Jaynestown'
Spike's Bitches 40: Buckle Up, Kids! Daddy's Puttin' the Hammer Down.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Aims - Mar 27, 2008 3:54:15 am PDT #1696 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
WindSparrow - Mar 27, 2008 3:54:50 am PDT #1697 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Happy 18th Birthday, K-Bug!
Miracleman - Mar 27, 2008 4:00:00 am PDT #1698 of 10001
No, I don't think I will - me, quoting Captain Steve Rogers, to all of 2020
All this talk of snuggling...
...look, these days I have way *too much* snuggling happening. Anybody who wants to take a dog, two cats and a three-year-old off my hands can have 'em, free, no questions asked.
Aimee and I used to snuggle at the start and then during the night drift to our separate corners. Rare were the times I awoke in the morning still snuggling. Less rare were the times one of us would wake up in the middle of the night and shove the other away. "Too hot, fuck off, ARGH!"
Nowadays...Aimee and I don't snuggle because of aforementioned small entities glomming onto me. Seriously, every morning I wake up with a dog over my legs, one cat snuggled against my chest, the other (the big one, natch) laying on top of me and Da Punk plastered against my back.
I'ma get me a hammock, just so I can get some alone sleep-time.
Sparky1 - Mar 27, 2008 4:24:33 am PDT #1699 of 10001
Librarian Warlord
Happy Birthday, K-Bug! (I tried to send an email, but it bounced!)
Jessica - Mar 27, 2008 4:27:30 am PDT #1700 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
You'd think this would be fine, because then I can read while he's busy with the tinkering. But then I go to bed WAY before he does (his ADD-induced second wind kicks in around 10:30, right around the time I'm thinking in the general direction of bed), and it makes me feel guilty, like I should be spending Quality Relationship Time with him instead of reading while he tinkers.
This is me and DH, except that I go to bed closer to 9 these days (baby + plague). I go to bed and read and fall asleep, and he stays up til 1 watching movies in the living room.
Cashmere - Mar 27, 2008 4:29:17 am PDT #1701 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.
Happy Birthday, K-Bug!!!
SailAweigh - Mar 27, 2008 4:40:38 am PDT #1702 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb
Hippo Birdies, K-Bug!!
Nora Deirdre - Mar 27, 2008 4:43:47 am PDT #1703 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
So, let me ask -- married folk/people living in sin: does it feel roommate-y sometimes? Or is there a roommate-like aspect? Is this normal?
As multiple folks have mentioned upthread, yes, totally normal. Tom and I tend to go to sleep at the same time, but when we are hanging out in the evening we like to do our own thing. Since we got the wireless, we tend to both be on the couch, me watching tv and him on the laptop, but before that, he'd go up to the office and do that.
It's nice to have space in the house to be able to spread out and have our own spaces. Keeps us sane!
Aims - Mar 27, 2008 5:12:25 am PDT #1704 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
so angry. got a shitty letter from boss re: my job performance. "no trust. ineed better from you and I need it immediately. see me to discuss." he gets in just now and asks "if we need to talk about anything" I ask if he means that letter. he says yes. I say "we do but it will have to be later" how passive agressive was he???
Aims - Mar 27, 2008 5:12:33 am PDT #1705 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.