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Nora Deirdre - Mar 27, 2008 4:43:47 am PDT #1703 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

So, let me ask -- married folk/people living in sin: does it feel roommate-y sometimes? Or is there a roommate-like aspect? Is this normal?

As multiple folks have mentioned upthread, yes, totally normal. Tom and I tend to go to sleep at the same time, but when we are hanging out in the evening we like to do our own thing. Since we got the wireless, we tend to both be on the couch, me watching tv and him on the laptop, but before that, he'd go up to the office and do that.

It's nice to have space in the house to be able to spread out and have our own spaces. Keeps us sane!

Aims - Mar 27, 2008 5:12:25 am PDT #1704 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

so angry. got a shitty letter from boss re: my job performance. "no trust. ineed better from you and I need it immediately. see me to discuss." he gets in just now and asks "if we need to talk about anything" I ask if he means that letter. he says yes. I say "we do but it will have to be later" how passive agressive was he???

Aims - Mar 27, 2008 5:12:33 am PDT #1705 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Aims - Mar 27, 2008 5:12:43 am PDT #1706 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

so angry. got a shitty letter from boss re: my job performance. "no trust. ineed better from you and I need it immediately. see me to discuss." he gets in just now and asks "if we need to talk about anything" I ask if he means that letter. he says yes. I say "we do but it will have to be later" how passive agressive was he???

Aims - Mar 27, 2008 5:12:52 am PDT #1707 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

so angry. got a shitty letter from boss re: my job performance. "no trust. ineed better from you and I need it immediately. see me to discuss." he gets in just now and asks "if we need to talk about anything" I ask if he means that letter. he says yes. I say "we do but it will have to be later" how passive agressive was he???

Jessica - Mar 27, 2008 5:13:46 am PDT #1708 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Aimee, it sounds like this guy has the emotional maturity of a walnut. Feh.

Sparky1 - Mar 27, 2008 5:24:19 am PDT #1709 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

Aimee, I vote you play simpleton and make him SPELL IT OUT. "Need better from you" isn't actually helpful. If he's in a snit because his money wrangler is second guessing his choice to buy up properties and leave the company without cash, make him say, "Aimee, I don't want you to voice any opinions." And then memorialize it. He shouldn't be the only one who gets to write something down.

brenda m - Mar 27, 2008 5:24:54 am PDT #1710 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

WTF, Aimee? That is some bullshit right there.

hippocampus - Mar 27, 2008 5:25:25 am PDT #1711 of 10001
not your mom's socks.

Aimee - how does this happen when you just got a "great job!" letter of ... um, when was that... last week?

and wtf with the letters?!?

Amy - Mar 27, 2008 5:35:47 am PDT #1712 of 10001
Because books.

Seriously? Why is he sending you LETTERS? Also, WHY IS HE AN ENORMOUS FUCKWIT?

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