Let him do his thing, and then you get him out. No messing with him for laughs.

Mal ,'Ariel'


Spike's Bitches 39: Cuppa Tea, Cuppa Tea, Almost Got Shagged, Cuppa Tea...  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


vw bug - Mar 11, 2008 8:17:34 am PDT #9516 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

sj, how is he in 7th grade already???

I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work. I hate group work.

I attempted to discuss some wrong-headed ideas (about the difference between fundamentalists and evangelicals) with a group-mate today (our group is working on presenting on women in fundamentalism, which, um, I happen to have some first-hand knowledge about). He finally waked away in a huff saying, "Well, I'm just telling it like it is from the Christian viewpoint." Um, honey, you better think before you make assumptions that I'm talking about it from a non-Christian perspecitive. And now I get to deal with this in the online classroom. Ugh.


Glamcookie - Mar 11, 2008 8:19:27 am PDT #9517 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

OMG, you guys!! I just made an appt. for a consultation with a fertility doctor!!! HOLY SHIT!

This post may self-destruct soonish.


Emily - Mar 11, 2008 8:19:58 am PDT #9518 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Oh ugh, Emily. They always mean well with those kinds of "surprises," but man are they inconvenient.

No kidding. I mean, we all appreciate the thought, but... Well, you know. Teachers: not actually as social as you might have thought, especially if you're an administrator.

And vw, word on the studying. Because really, who does? I mean, I've been known to spend some time over a break doing homework/studying -- but not nearly as much time as I've spent feeling guilty over how much I'm not doing. How is that productive, exactly? I've gotta tell you, not assigning homework is so freeing!

Holy nonspecific-in-case-of-destruction cow, GC! That's... major!


vw bug - Mar 11, 2008 8:21:35 am PDT #9519 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

And vw, word on the studying. Because really, who does? I mean, I've been to spend some time over a break doing homework/studying -- but not nearly as much time as I've spent feeling guilty over how much I'm not doing. How is that productive, exactly? I've gotta tell you, not assigning homework is so freeing!

So glad this isn't just me. It just seems so ridiculous. And, I mean, really. We couldn't have pushed ahead *just* a bit to get through the material and have the test before break? I just don't understand the planning here.


sj - Mar 11, 2008 8:23:12 am PDT #9520 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj, how is he in 7th grade already???

Time warp? I'm not really sure. A swear that a second ago he was a two year old jumping up and down saying, "Auntie Tcharah's here in her red car!" He couldn't pronounce s's. Now all of the sudden he's nearly a teenager.


sj - Mar 11, 2008 8:23:52 am PDT #9521 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Yay, GC!!! Best wishes!


Emily - Mar 11, 2008 8:25:44 am PDT #9522 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Last month, my father went to visit a woman whose first child I'd helped take care of for a week several years ago (I think he may have been out of diapers, but still in a stroller). I thought, "Wow, Aurelien must be 13 or so now!"

Apparently he's 21.


Susan W. - Mar 11, 2008 8:29:25 am PDT #9523 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Susan, are you around? I need you to point me to some of your fundamentalist/dominionist blog/other resources links.

I'm around now.

Vision Forum is by Doug Phillips, who apparently is one of the big mucky-mucks in the movement. His blog is revealing, and if you look at the books & media, All-American Boy's Adventure Catalog, and Beautiful Girlhood Collection, you get a good idea what they're about and what they consider appropriate gender roles. (Boys get to have WAY more fun in their world, surprise surprise.)

Visionary Daughters are two young women whose father is well-connected in the Vision Forum crowd who've written a book and produced a video on their view of the role of teen and unmarried adult daughters in the Christian family. They come across as sort of the princesses/beauty queens of the movement.

Stacy McDonald is a co-author of Passionate Housewives Desperate for God, another new book on women's roles. The interesting thing about her and her husband are that they're a blended family who came into their marriage both divorced with small children, but since that wing of Christianity is opposed to divorce and remarriage, you'd never know from what they say that their oldest children came from previous marriages.

Ladies Against Feminism has a lot of illuminating articles and links.

For a critique of the movement by other conservative Christians, check the True Womanhood blog or Under Much Grace.


SailAweigh - Mar 11, 2008 8:32:55 am PDT #9524 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Whoohoo, GC! Good luck!


Ginger - Mar 11, 2008 8:33:20 am PDT #9525 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Yay for Julia's friend! There has been so much progress in treating childhood leukemia.

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