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River ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 39: Cuppa Tea, Cuppa Tea, Almost Got Shagged, Cuppa Tea...  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Emily - Mar 11, 2008 8:19:58 am PDT #9518 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Oh ugh, Emily. They always mean well with those kinds of "surprises," but man are they inconvenient.

No kidding. I mean, we all appreciate the thought, but... Well, you know. Teachers: not actually as social as you might have thought, especially if you're an administrator.

And vw, word on the studying. Because really, who does? I mean, I've been known to spend some time over a break doing homework/studying -- but not nearly as much time as I've spent feeling guilty over how much I'm not doing. How is that productive, exactly? I've gotta tell you, not assigning homework is so freeing!

Holy nonspecific-in-case-of-destruction cow, GC! That's... major!


vw bug - Mar 11, 2008 8:21:35 am PDT #9519 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

And vw, word on the studying. Because really, who does? I mean, I've been to spend some time over a break doing homework/studying -- but not nearly as much time as I've spent feeling guilty over how much I'm not doing. How is that productive, exactly? I've gotta tell you, not assigning homework is so freeing!

So glad this isn't just me. It just seems so ridiculous. And, I mean, really. We couldn't have pushed ahead *just* a bit to get through the material and have the test before break? I just don't understand the planning here.


sj - Mar 11, 2008 8:23:12 am PDT #9520 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj, how is he in 7th grade already???

Time warp? I'm not really sure. A swear that a second ago he was a two year old jumping up and down saying, "Auntie Tcharah's here in her red car!" He couldn't pronounce s's. Now all of the sudden he's nearly a teenager.


sj - Mar 11, 2008 8:23:52 am PDT #9521 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Yay, GC!!! Best wishes!


Emily - Mar 11, 2008 8:25:44 am PDT #9522 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Last month, my father went to visit a woman whose first child I'd helped take care of for a week several years ago (I think he may have been out of diapers, but still in a stroller). I thought, "Wow, Aurelien must be 13 or so now!"

Apparently he's 21.


Susan W. - Mar 11, 2008 8:29:25 am PDT #9523 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Susan, are you around? I need you to point me to some of your fundamentalist/dominionist blog/other resources links.

I'm around now.

Vision Forum is by Doug Phillips, who apparently is one of the big mucky-mucks in the movement. His blog is revealing, and if you look at the books & media, All-American Boy's Adventure Catalog, and Beautiful Girlhood Collection, you get a good idea what they're about and what they consider appropriate gender roles. (Boys get to have WAY more fun in their world, surprise surprise.)

Visionary Daughters are two young women whose father is well-connected in the Vision Forum crowd who've written a book and produced a video on their view of the role of teen and unmarried adult daughters in the Christian family. They come across as sort of the princesses/beauty queens of the movement.

Stacy McDonald is a co-author of Passionate Housewives Desperate for God, another new book on women's roles. The interesting thing about her and her husband are that they're a blended family who came into their marriage both divorced with small children, but since that wing of Christianity is opposed to divorce and remarriage, you'd never know from what they say that their oldest children came from previous marriages.

Ladies Against Feminism has a lot of illuminating articles and links.

For a critique of the movement by other conservative Christians, check the True Womanhood blog or Under Much Grace.


SailAweigh - Mar 11, 2008 8:32:55 am PDT #9524 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Whoohoo, GC! Good luck!


Ginger - Mar 11, 2008 8:33:20 am PDT #9525 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Yay for Julia's friend! There has been so much progress in treating childhood leukemia.

From an eBay listing:

Not a smoke or pet free environment..{ my cats smoke while wrapping the packages. .]


DavidS - Mar 11, 2008 8:33:39 am PDT #9526 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

How are your babies big and small?

Emmett's good. He's getting big. He's just under 5' and he weighs about 113. Solid through the chest and thighs. He's 11 but he's wearing size 14 or 16 in Gap jeans. Baseball season starts this Saturday.

Matilda is very gabby and cute and tiny and not-sleeping. JZ and Matilda will be wearing matching gingham dresses at my reading this Friday.


Polter-Cow - Mar 11, 2008 8:36:20 am PDT #9527 of 10001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Good luck, GC!

HI CINDY.