Oh, GC. I'm sorry. My sympathies for you, your GF and her family. I'm so very sorry. I hope he is at peace now.
Well, look at you. All dressed up in big sister's clothes.
Faith ,'End of Days'
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Nora Deirdre - Jan 31, 2008 3:13:15 pm PST #4913 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
d - Jan 31, 2008 3:17:39 pm PST #4914 of 10001
It's nice to see some brave pretenders trying to make it interesting.
gloomcookie, peace love and strength to you and those who loved him.
javachik - Jan 31, 2008 3:19:13 pm PST #4915 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.
Awww, GC. My best, most comforting thoughts are headed your way.
Glamcookie - Jan 31, 2008 3:21:20 pm PST #4916 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Thank you for the good wishes. We're at GF's mom's house now. She wants to have a memorial service but not a religious one so tomorrow we're going to try to figure that out. Any ideas would be most appreciated, if any of you have experience with it. She's looking for someone to officiate but doesn't want a pastor, etc. It's been a very surreal day. Raise a glass to Jack, a truly sweet and caring man.
Cass - Jan 31, 2008 3:22:05 pm PST #4917 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
My sympathies, GC. I hope he is at peace now. My thoughts are with you, GF and your entire families. I know that this has been very difficult.
SailAweigh - Jan 31, 2008 3:24:20 pm PST #4918 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb
{{GC and GF}} I am so sorry for your loss. Peace~ma to GF's dad.
JZ - Jan 31, 2008 3:26:49 pm PST #4919 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
My condolences to you and GF and her family, GC. It's been such a long hard struggle for all of you. I will definitely raise a glass tonight to Jack and the peaceful, painless rest he has so very much earned.
Cashmere - Jan 31, 2008 3:29:29 pm PST #4920 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.
GC, I'm so sorry about Jack. Much sympathy to you, GF and all her family.
I'd look for someone close to Jack to officiate--was he in any clubs or organizations? I've been to services where they just line up loved ones to say a few words and play a favorite piece of music. There are no funeral rules, per se. I hope they can decide on something that gives them peace.
juliana - Jan 31, 2008 3:35:01 pm PST #4921 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
{{{{GC, GF, and fam}}}}
Atropa - Jan 31, 2008 3:38:44 pm PST #4922 of 10001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
GC, I'm so sorry. My condolences to you, GF, and the family.