Simon: The decision saved your life. Zoe: Won't happen again, sir. Mal: Good. And thanks. I'm grateful. Zoe: It was my pleasure, sir.

'Out Of Gas'


Spike's Bitches 39: Cuppa Tea, Cuppa Tea, Almost Got Shagged, Cuppa Tea...  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


omnis_audis - Jan 13, 2008 1:28:38 am PST #2171 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

ya, I've skipped the french fries for some time now. I've even gotten in the habit of skipping morning spuds when eating breakfast out. But with dinner, mashed potatoes with gravy... or a baked one loaded with cheese and bacon. mmmmmmm. I don't do it often, so I guess it's ok? Eh. My biggest problem is the stress munchies. I've gotten better, but, still have work to do. That and the excercise thing is rather difficult for me.

IOmeN, I've updated my Match.com profile. I was trying something quirky and funny, with a "save me from Guitar Hero", but I think it was coming off as lame and stupid. Now I fear my profile is too dry. I suck at writing them things.


Fay - Jan 13, 2008 1:28:40 am PST #2172 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

Generally, i trust doctors and nutritionists over anyone writing a diet book.

Oh, quite. But as Teppy said, it's actually not a diet book. Taubes is a science journalist whose previous books were Bad Science: The Short Life and Weird Times of Cold Fusion and Nobel Dreams: Power, Deceit and the Ultimate Experiment. He set out researching the current book on the hypothesis that HFCS was largely responsible for the fact that so many people in the West have gained so much weight during the past few decades, but after doing shitloads of research his findings took him to another conclusion entirely. The book is densely packed with detailed accounts of clinical trials and research into health and nutrition in the US and abroad. It explains precisely what research led to the US Government actively promoting the Low Fat lifestyle. (You'd think that there would have been clinical trials and comprehensive studies carried out, wouldn't you? ...not so much, as it turns out. And what research there WAS had decidedly mixed results, and did not, in fact, substantiate the interpretation that it was given.)

Sorry, I'm sounding a bit zealous, and that's always dull. But of all the nonfiction books that have made my head go boom lately, this one has the most to do with my immediate life, and a lot of its underlying assumptions. I'm finding it very eye-opening. I mean, it's less accessible than Bill Bryson, but still pretty compelling stuff.

(Having decided to have a crack at Atkins, I've gone and bought his book today. And, yes, this is the kind of thing that would always leave me staring suspiciously at the page, wondering how the guy actually substantiates his various cheesy assertions - very Self Help Book language. But from what I'm reading in the Taubes book, I think I'm still willing to have a crack at this - I feel like I have a much better grasp of how proteins and carbohydrates work on the body.)

Oh, hey, Fay! I heard your voice today and it was even lovelier than I had imagined it would be.

!!!

Um, which story would that be?

t /blush


Anne W. - Jan 13, 2008 3:59:54 am PST #2173 of 10001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

I managed to lose thirty pounds on Atkins several years ago, but found it hard to maintain long-term. In fact, I wound up gaining sixty pounds back over the course of three years. Then again, that's just me. I cannot live on a diet that restricts things to that degree.

What is currently working for me is keeping track of what I eat and being very particular about checking portion size/caloric content (done via Weight Watchers, but they're not the be-all, end-all).

The idea was unpleasant at first, but it really did help me retrain myself as to what was an appropriate serving size, show me how much stress eating I was really doing, etc. It's also made me aware that if I want a satisfying meal, I'll get more bang for the caloric buck if I have a salad, some chicken stir fry and some brown rice than if I have a hamburger.

That said, I make a point to treat myself a few times a week to something nice and decadent (last night was lamb korma and some tiramisu for dessert). I'm in net calorie deficit for the week, but I am convinced these regular treats keep my poor old bod from going into OMGFAMINE! mode and clinging even more tightly to its precious fat reserves. Plus, it helps keep away the miserable feeling of "I can never, ever have a chocolate milkshake again" that I'm fairly certain is why I scuttled my own attempt at Atkins.


Laura - Jan 13, 2008 4:34:29 am PST #2174 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Atkins works, as most diets work, if you can stick to them. The advantage to the Atkins type diet is that you lose the interest in eating which makes it easier. Skipping the ice cream is easier when you are not hungry.

My father has had two heart attacks and his cardiologist is quite adamant about cutting out red meat altogether

The cardiologists I know pretty much feel the same way, and they credit french fries for their fancy cars. The digestive physicians aren't crazy about heavy meat and fat rich diets either. The colon prefers the fiber rich stuff.

The body would be happier and healthier with real non-processed foods. If it comes in a box with 23 ingredients it is likely not as good for you as food found in the produce racks, or the meat coolers.

I don't have any interest in sugar, but pasta and pizza dough are my great white loves. We know the foods that are good for us, and we know the importance of exercise. The tricky part is finding a diet that we can stick with because it fits our lifestyle and doesn't leave us feeling totally deprived.


Anne W. - Jan 13, 2008 4:53:55 am PST #2175 of 10001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

The tricky part is finding a diet that we can stick with because it fits our lifestyle and doesn't leave us feeling totally deprived.

Exactly. And that was my own problem in the long run with Atkins - there came a point where I wanted that ice cream, hungry or not. Knowing I could have one if I wanted to save the calories for it is a huge factor for me when it comes to the psychology of the diet thing. It makes it easier to do without because it is my choice to do without, if that makes any sense.

The body would be happier and healthier with real non-processed foods.

Oh, hell yes. There are no words to express how much I am looking forward to farmer's market season starting up again.


Jessica - Jan 13, 2008 4:57:58 am PST #2176 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Cutting down on carbs makes me quite literally go insane. If I don't eat enough starch, I think about food all the time, have the attention span of a goldfish with ADD, and become cranky and irritable like my PMS has been turned up to eleven. I tried it for a week, once, and after about day three I was ready to kill someone and use their skull as a rice cooker. There was really no amount of weight loss that would have made another day of feeling like that worth it.

The thing that's made the most difference in the way I eat recently is breastfeeding, because Dylan reacts much more strongly to changes in my diet than I do. I can tell when I'm not getting enough protein (or too much) by the way he acts, which forces me to eat a very balanced diet.

(And being poor because all my money is going towards daycare has forced me to cut down on processed foods because all I can afford to eat for lunch these days is tuna fish sandwiches that I make myself. Every now and then I'll splurge and put cheese on one.)


sj - Jan 13, 2008 5:20:22 am PST #2177 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Does anyone know if I can take tums if I'm already taking perscription prilosec? I have to be somewhere today and my stomach is a mess.


Ginger - Jan 13, 2008 5:52:12 am PST #2178 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

It's okay, sj. Prilosec is an acid-production blocker, but apparently it's not blocking enough. If this happens often, you might want to ask your doctor about increasing your dosage. Mine had me go to two a day for a while.


Cashmere - Jan 13, 2008 6:21:53 am PST #2179 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Grrrrrrr. The kids have a habit of closing the French doors between the family room and the living room. This doesn't bother me. It drives DH insane for some unknown reason.

He came in and said, "They only shut these when you're around. They leave them alone when they're with me."

Me: "Um. Yeah. Why does it bother you if they're shut?"

Him: "I don't know. It just does."

Me: "Does it hurt to have the doors shut?"

Him: "No. But I'd appreciate it if you would discourage them from doing it."

Me: "OK. I'll do my best."

So I'm supposed to correct the kids for SHUTTING DOORS?! WTF?


brenda m - Jan 13, 2008 6:26:27 am PST #2180 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

If he feels that strongly about it, maybe he should look for some doorstops to prop them open and discourage them that way. Or else just get over it. Either way, I'm not sure why you're involved.