Hey, it's their own fault because what's her name wouldn't come outside.

Sorry , Steph.

1) it was health he was talking about. 2) he really doesn't have a clue how big this is to you 3) he might also be looking for a some sort of guaranteed that life . This is most likely a part of the whole move in thing - just looking for something that doesn't exist. I do not know if the boy is a whatifer -but I am one. Playing out senerios in my head - a great comfort to me. Other people , it makes them crazy stupid.

And i agree with others above - there are places where your accommodation with the significant people in your life is rough at best. Example. When Matt and I got married I was healthy.- extremely . As in never even get got a cold. Now, even with diabetes and asthma - I am still reasonably healthy. however, if I get a cold - we have to have a fight. The last one was completely insane. He came up with bizzare suggests/orders. And yet, when I tell him how he can help me with my health, he forgets 2 seconds after I tell him. Now I admit there is insanity on my side. I am still extraordinarily angry at the state of my health. going from paying no attention to always paying attention is just wrong. But I think part of what is going on in his head is the fear of change - mixed with the much bigger fear that something will happen to me.

I know why you thought about leaving him. ( he should know that at some point) I also thik you made the better decsio to keep going forward. People that love you can hurt you the most, but only because they are there.

If the plush Eiffel Tower isn't sufficiently convincing, you could send him to me. I have a bobblehead Jesus who could, um, bobble chidingly at him, and also a miniature redcoat who could poke him with an extremely wee bayonet.

Oooh! I have a squeaky Rufus the Naked Mole Rat avec sombrero and a Portly Moose! The moose can whack him upside the head, and the Rufus can squeak disapprovingly at him.

Oh, OWEN. tries to hold back giggles

People that love you can hurt you the most, but only because they are there.

I would ammend this to "People that love you WILL hurt you the most". Guaranteed.

ETA: Not on purpose, but because we love them so much already anything we percieve as a 5 badness from stranger goes up to 11 when it's someone we love.

If the plush Eiffel Tower isn't sufficiently convincing, you could send him to me.

I have a plush face-sucker from Alien.

I'm now envisioning something Toy Story-esque with all our desk toys...

I have plush MojoJojo and plush Cthulhu. When I get bored, they have conversations about how to take over the world.

I wish I had desk toys and a root.

(((Teppy))) Insent.

I have a gargoyle and a Hello Kitty ballerina. I suspect I know which one most people around here find scarier.