He's not very sexual. Which is the weakest part of their relationship, IMHO, because she is extremely sexual. I like him, I think he's a good match for her in many ways, but...I have reservations about the long-term viability of their relationship on this level.
Wow, that's eerie. I had this exact conversation with someone before I got married. Also, DexH was definitely mainly very monogamous rather than insecure.
Anyway. In the past.
Laga, did you see Fay's question to you? I'm sure you were using the plural/general "you," right?
Please tell me no marriage was ever broken up by cilantro. I left onions out of my cooking for years just to make my
sister
happy.
I have the sudden urge to make tacos with chopped onions and cilantro.
Totally missed this:
...this wasn't addressed to me, was it?
no, the general "you". I'd had the idea floating around in my head since the first time I saw someone say something like, "I like the idea of a poly relationship but I don't think I could do it." It took a couple of glasses of Pinot Noir for me to squeeze out the post.
Please tell me no marriage was ever broken up by cilantro.
Sorry, babe, a Google search finds that 3/5 American marriages are adversely impacted by a couple's differing views on cilantro.
Republican legislators are currently pursuing the passing of a bill that "outlaws that pernicious herb, cilantro, as being basically inimical to the family values our country hold dear" reports Ida Fo-Journalistte in the Washington Post.
some guys aren't insecure, just very very monogamous. The idea of the one they love being with someone else is unacceptable to them.
This is me. Except for the part about being a guy. I am mono and don't view that as insecurity.
Yeah, I don't think we need to start tossing around words like "insecurity". So far everybody has stayed nice.
If I read right, Laga had already modified her stance on that, I think for that reason. I agree that insecurity is a loaded word.
Blackberry-induced double post. Sorry!
Sorry, babe, a Google search finds that 3/5 American marriages are adversely impacted by a couple's differing views on cilantro.
This could be a big problem in my own marriage. I should put "Cilantro N/N?" on the application.
So, S is home again. It was apparently a pretty minor episode, but required hospitalization nonetheless.
I am very tired. I think I shall go take a nap, and enjoy my unexpected weekend off.
