Spike: Or maybe Captain Forehead was feeling a little less special. Didn't like me crashing his exclusive club, another vampire with a soul in the world. Angel: You're not in the world, Casper.

'Just Rewards (2)'


Spike's Bitches 38: Well, This Is Just...Neat.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Aims - Nov 02, 2007 12:44:22 pm PDT #2216 of 10002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I'm not sure if I should muzzle my humor or what.

Hell no.


Strix - Nov 02, 2007 12:45:08 pm PDT #2217 of 10002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I think they are close -- the marcelling and the fingerwaves.


Trudy Booth - Nov 02, 2007 12:45:27 pm PDT #2218 of 10002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I'm not sure if I should muzzle my humor or what.

Muzzling would be a whole 'nother thing...


NoiseDesign - Nov 02, 2007 12:49:19 pm PDT #2219 of 10002
Our wings are not tired

I'm more basing my definition of Poly on intentions, not neccessarily actions. Meaning, I love my friend Chris. If he and I were to find ourselves not married, we would probably be together. But I don't intend to have sex with him. It doesn't change my level of feelings for him, nor his for me, nor ours for our spouses, but I wouldn't say that either of us were Poly.

Does that make sense?

Yes it does, but take this in the case of being bisexual again. If a bisexual man ends up in a relationship with a woman, he doesn't cease being bisexual. If he's monogamous then he won't be having sex with other men, or have the intent to have sex with other men, but he is still bisexual.


Trudy Booth - Nov 02, 2007 12:50:45 pm PDT #2220 of 10002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Yeah, I think we were defining the nature of poly relationships.

If someone says they're Poly or Bi or Gay or whatever you just say "ok" because they're really the only person who could possibly make that call. I don't think anyone here disagrees with that.


Aims - Nov 02, 2007 12:51:52 pm PDT #2221 of 10002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Noise, I agree with you 100%. But the definition of a polyamorus relationship that has been given seems to make a lot of people who don't orient themselves a poly, poly.

I don't deny that poly is an orientation or that someone who orients themself as poly isn't if they aren't in any relationship(s).


Glamcookie - Nov 02, 2007 12:53:55 pm PDT #2222 of 10002
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

If someone says they're Poly or Bi or Gay or whatever you just say "ok" because they're really the only person who could possibly make that call.

Unless they're Willow. (Sorry, still a bit of a sore topic for this bi?/gay? girl.)

Also having a SHITTY day. Pity me, pat my hair.


Daisy Jane - Nov 02, 2007 12:54:02 pm PDT #2223 of 10002
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Noise, I agree with you 100%. But the definition of a polyamorus relationship that has been given seems to make a lot of people who don't orient themselves a poly, poly.

How if they don't consider themselves oriented that way?


Daisy Jane - Nov 02, 2007 12:55:15 pm PDT #2224 of 10002
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Unless they're Willow. (Sorry, still a bit of a sore topic for this bi?/gay? girl.)

She says she's a lesbian, Imma believe her.


Aims - Nov 02, 2007 12:55:20 pm PDT #2225 of 10002
Shit's all sorts of different now.

How if they don't consider themselves oriented that way?

Good point.

I have nothing to back to myself up with because you have a good point.

I'ma sit back here and watch your good point.