You totally didn't know! That's why you couldn't act like it.

BWAH!

This morning on the radio, they were discussing class reunions, and one person e-mailed in her experience at her 20th high school reunion (the first one she'd attended), when she ran into a guy she had been friendly with (but not really friends) back in school. She went up to him and said hi, and right at the beginning of the conversation he said, "Well, you were fat in school then and you're still fat now." She left the party and refuses to go to another reunion ever.

Who the hell says stuff like that to someone?

I don't understand random attacks of malice. I can kind of understand when a person thinks he's been wronged in some way and hits cranky overload, but being verbally assaulted just because I'm standing there? WTF, dude.

This. I've gotten a few verbal drive-by assaults in Salem. Most of the time they don't even slow down enough to make what they are yelling decipherable apart from a few choice swear words (and "faggot" once) and it's almost always guys in a pickup truck or an SUV (and yeah - usually 20-somethings). I've had it happen late at night but more weirdly first thing in the morning. Just getting home from a hard of shooting rats at the dump or something? Those times almost make me laugh out loud at the oddness.

people who want to hurt others and get away with it.

I mean seriously if someone said that to me that I knew AT ALL, they would get "who the fuck says rude shit like that?" and I'd walk away. If I didn't know them, on most days I wouldn't care. If I was caught on a bad day I would engage in screaming insults at them.

Happy birthday Matilda!

I mean seriously if someone said that to me that I knew AT ALL, they would get "who the fuck says rude shit like that?" and I'd walk away. If I didn't know them, on most days I wouldn't care. If I was caught on a bad day I would engage in screaming insults at them.

Ignoring those sorts of people really is the best option, because (IMO) all they're trying to do is make themselves feel better by being cruel to others. Of course, I have been known to walk up to those sorts and do my best wide-eyed, dumb, and grateful routine. "Oh my gosh, I never realized it! You're so right! Thank you for pointing that out to me!" (This is especially fun to do to the people who feel the need to tell me that "Halloween is over, freak!")

But I try not to indulge in that sort of response very often.

Shrift, those are very nice glasses. And should I just buy the episode of L.A. Ink from iTunes sight-unseen? I'm assuming yes.

it's almost always guys in a pickup truck or an SUV (and yeah - usually 20-somethings).

They hang out in groups of five because they have a fifth of a personality each.

t /Izzard

occasional yells and gestures when trying to tell another driver that he has a flat tire or his coffee cup is on top of the car.

I have been known to completely ignore nice people like Ginger who are trying to tell me that my purse is on my car because I figure they are really going to insult me!

usually 20-somethings

I think 20's are the new teens, or something! Except with the faux-politness which is my most hated way of someone being mean. I almost killed this kid on my bus once who was being all faux polite to this mentally challenged woman and then snickering with his friends. I didn't know whether I felt bad or good that the woman probably didn't understand she was being made fun of, and was probably happy to talk to someone about her job and how her day was.

I didn't know whether I felt bad or good that the woman probably didn't understand she was being made fun of, and was probably happy to talk to someone about her job and how her day was.

Man, this makes me so, so sad.

I have to say that I kinda love being fake polite mean, but it is only to the kind of people you are describing Sophia. Jackholes who never learned manners or decency draw out my mean.

Hey! I am a twenty-something who wouldn't shout at a person in the street! And I don't remember ever being shouted at, although I have been flashed a couple of times.