You got all kinds of learnin' and you made me look the fool without tryin', and yet here I am with a gun to your head. That's 'cause I got people with me. People who trust each other, who do for each other, and ain't always lookin' for the advantage.

Mal ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


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Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Scrappy - Sep 18, 2007 11:17:19 am PDT #1414 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Hivemind question: We have an employee coming up on his 10th year and the company owner wants to give him a weekend at a fancy hotel (he's married, so it won't be just him). The hotel is right here in town and very chi-chi. Would you guys find a weekend, including a fancy dinner, in the town where you live a better gift than a plain airline gift certificate?


Sophia Brooks - Sep 18, 2007 11:20:20 am PDT #1415 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I would hate both, cause I think in NYS it would be considered taxable income! Seriously, I would rather have the local all-expenses paid thing, because I don't like gifts where I have to use my own money. I think it would depend on how much money he makes and how much he and his wife like to travel.


Vortex - Sep 18, 2007 11:22:23 am PDT #1416 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I would go with an airline gift cert. Much more practical and easy to use. Although it's nice to have a weekend at a fancy hotel, would he really use it?


SuziQ - Sep 18, 2007 11:24:34 am PDT #1417 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I like the in town vacation. A few years ago, I won a package that included a couple of hotel nights in town and it felt like a total luxury.

Not to say airfare isn't cool too, but I'm with Sophia on the "but then *I* have to pay for hotel and other stuff".


lisah - Sep 18, 2007 11:25:46 am PDT #1418 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate

Would you guys find a weekend, including a fancy dinner, in the town where you live a better gift than a plain airline gift certificate?

Well, with the airline gift certificate I might feel obligated to use it for a flight I would have taken anyway so, while it would be nice to save the money, it wouldn't be much of a treat.


§ ita § - Sep 18, 2007 11:26:43 am PDT #1419 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I'm with the people that aren't Vortex. I like recognition gifts that are totally gifty, and less practical.


Nora Deirdre - Sep 18, 2007 11:28:38 am PDT #1420 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I'd dig a night in a fancy local hotel with fancy dinner. We actually do that ourselves (well, in Cambridge and we live in Salem, about ~45 minutes away) and I'd be psyched to get it as a gift.


meara - Sep 18, 2007 11:31:30 am PDT #1421 of 10001

Well, with the airline gift certificate I might feel obligated to use it for a flight I would have taken anyway so, while it would be nice to save the money, it wouldn't be much of a treat.

This--I'd probably initially be more excited about the airline thing, but in the end it would be less luxurious. OTOH, if I were strapped for cash, that might not matter. :)

Of course, it took me almost a year to use the movie passes I got from my boss for CHRISTMAS, so...


bon bon - Sep 18, 2007 11:33:04 am PDT #1422 of 10001
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

I kind of want to cry you guys. My toe still hurts after ten days, it's still swollen, it's crooked and I have no idea what to do. I don't have a GP because I changed insurance earlier this year. I kind of just want to go to the hospital but this is obviously not urgent care. I feel stupid for not knowing how medical care works.


Ginger - Sep 18, 2007 11:33:14 am PDT #1423 of 10001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I would never use a hotel room in town. I don't see the point, unless you're escaping your children.