Found the Savage Love column: [link]
Spike's Bitches 37: You take the killing for granted.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Being kinky is never an excuse for poor manners.
Yes. So very much yes.
Dan Savage is kind of the Kinky Charm School, I suppose.
Yeah, but Dan can also be a complete jackass to people who don't deserve it. Of course, I realize I am unreasonably biased because I know people who have worked for him, so I've Heard Stories.
Though he lacks an adorable (or possibly Adorable) Cafepress store.
This is true!
Lisah, if you want to really rebel, come out as a brussels sprout lover. That'll fix 'em! although it does leave you in the position of having to actually eat brussels sprouts.
Turned. Those. Boys. Scarlet.
Your MMA boys are not my MMA boys.
I'd shake my head sadly at mine, but some consider me one of the worst offenders. Still, we're more likely to tap out during sex than apply safe words to fighting.
Hey! The "toy boats" on the fetish chart...that's just joshing, right? Right?
JZ, funny you should bring up that particular kink (in whitefont) just a day or so after I accidentally found the phrase "Cuban tripe." There are days when I really wish I could burn information out of my brain.
Hey! The "toy boats" on the fetish chart...that's just joshing, right? Right?
My kinky compatriots tell me that it is, in fact, a recognized fetish. I don't think they were bullshitting me.
Well, didn't I just learn something new.
I need to go to krav and tell them about it...
My kinky compatriots tell me that it is, in fact, a recognized fetish.
DUDE. Why boats, though? Why not toy helicopters?
I do feel very naïve right now.
When I know something like that that ita doesn't, it scares me.
I endeavour to not let anyone know something I don't for too long.
It's not always a wise principle, but...well, at least it's easy to follow.