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Spike's Bitches 37: You take the killing for granted.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Aims - Sep 25, 2007 7:39:17 am PDT #6877 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

religious teens were having anal sex because it allowed the girl to remain a virgin.

When I was in college in the late eighties we called them "Roman Virgins"

Yup. We would talk about girls who "gave up it up Catholic Style".

I think "kink" has more to do with the frame of mind of the do-er than of the act its self.

I would agree with this like, a billion.


Connie Neil - Sep 25, 2007 7:43:55 am PDT #6878 of 10001
brillig

We would talk about girls who "gave up it up Catholic Style".

I am always amazed at how little I talked about the details of sex with people in college. Yeah, I talked about who was doing it with whom, but the only time details were ever mentioned was when someone had a copy of "Joy of Sex" and said, "I'm so boring!"


Sophia Brooks - Sep 25, 2007 7:48:21 am PDT #6879 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

We would talk about girls who "gave up it up Catholic Style".

I never heard this, and I went to a Catholic College in 1991! Everyone seemed to have forgotten the "stay a virgin until married" part at that time, though.


Connie Neil - Sep 25, 2007 7:52:25 am PDT #6880 of 10001
brillig

My friends and I did snicker over the various "Oh, it didn't count, we didn't do it in a bed" justifications we'd hear girls use. Mostly, I was just disgusted every Saturday morning hearing the party-goes going around to their friends saying, "Do you know who I shacked up with last night? The guy I woke up next to isn't the one I was expecting."

edit: AIDS wasn't known in my small town then, the big things to avoid were generic VD and pregnancy. One of my roommates went through high drama every month, because she thought birth control was immoral, but sleeping with strangers was cool.


Daisy Jane - Sep 25, 2007 8:00:05 am PDT #6881 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Not to interrupt the kink talk (heavens forfend!), but today was a very buffista Teri Gross. Reaper and Tegan and Sara.


Toddson - Sep 25, 2007 8:00:36 am PDT #6882 of 10001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Dear Lesbians, now you CAN have pink pistols!


megan walker - Sep 25, 2007 8:01:44 am PDT #6883 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

One of my roommates went through high drama every month, because she thought birth control was immoral, but sleeping with strangers was cool.

My favorite at the Catholic university I attended was the girl who explained to me freshman year how homosexuality was wrong because "The Church" said so, but seemed to have no problem being on the Pill or sleeping around.


Steph L. - Sep 25, 2007 8:05:27 am PDT #6884 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Daisy Jane!!! The Boy finally posted some pictures of his Harley: [link]

Feel free to pass the pictures on to Mr. Jane.


tommyrot - Sep 25, 2007 8:09:53 am PDT #6885 of 10001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

I knew someone who thought both birth control and premarital sex were wrong, but she ended up getting pregnant out of wedlock. Apparently giving in to the passion of the moment is less of a sin than planning ahead of time for sex.


§ ita § - Sep 25, 2007 8:11:37 am PDT #6886 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Girls in bikinis on the covers of magazines make the locals of Utah uptight and anxious.

I don't think it's kinky unless they're also turned on. An uptight and anxious kink would just suck. Which, I suppose, makes Utah one of the kinkiest places in the nation.

We talked about sex a decent amount in university. I just sent off a friend to university, and my care package to her was two vibrators and a sex book. Well, so far. She also got restraints that attach to a door and a heart-shaped paddle from other well-wishers.

That would be more sharing than I could have dealt with when I was in school, but her entire floor in residence has now oohed and aahed and read.