I may be revealing too much, but I'm pretty sure people would think I'm nicer than I really am, based solely on my posts. I delete a lot of stuff before I hit "post." This is why I know that the post is not the person.
'Not Fade Away'
Bureaucracy 4: Like Job. No, really, just like Job
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So now you guys think I'm a bitch, right?
....Great.
Jesse I had actually replied to your post with a post of my own about how I delete more stuff than I actually post because after I write it down it seems silly but then that post seemed silly so I deleted it and then completely forgot about it. You're kidding about thinking you're a bitch, right? So hard to hear the humor in text some times so ftr I do not think you're a bitch.
But we think you're a considerate and thoughtful bitch, Jesse.
You're kidding about thinking you're a bitch, right?
Yes, I am.
But we think you're a considerate and thoughtful bitch, Jesse.
Excellent. Carry on.
I am disappointed that Jesse is not bitchy ENOUGH.
You just expect a certain level of bitchiness from a cowgirl.
So now you guys think I'm a bitch, right?
More of a badass really.
Just for the record, I'm the sort of person who would fear that one rude post would overwrite the entirety of my character. I can see that at least Wolfram has the same sort of post=person perception; I don't know whether other people think and behave the same way. But I am glad to read that most people haven't actually had their feelings hurt in these quite contentious debates.
I certainly know from experience that one very unfortunate off-the-cuff remark of mine set a whole thread into motion (which is why I've felt extremely nervous during this entire discussion in terms of what I post), so P-C and Wolfram are definitely not alone.
Well, I certainly have been known to make snap judgments about people. OTOH, there have been times when a particularly elegant or nice post has changed my negative opinion of a poster. But, I think I'm more judgy than most people, so YJMV. I, mean, I've been known to take an instant dislike to someone based on their shoes.