Re: Spousal friends. I could never imagine doing that, either. Actually, that's not true. There have a been a few times when a gaming session has gone into the wee willy winkie hours of the morining that I've thought about going out there and saying, "BOOOOOM! Gian meteor strikes planet. Everyone's dead. Go home." but I never have. I usually just go to bed. It has always bothered me more when Joe is out gaming until 3 am.
Re: Money. Joe and I don't have "allowances" for each other, though we have entertained the idea because it works well for toher couples that we know. For the longest time, I was in charge of the budgeting and bill paying and then one day, I got sick and tired of always knowing how much money we (didn't) have and gave it all to him. Turns out, we never had any money cause I was spending it. Once things get settled back for us, he'll go back to taking care of stuff. And hopefully that will be easier for him this time around because we get free auto bill pay with out checking account.
Re: plastic surgery. For the longest time, I always wanted my nose and chin job. Then I saw a chin job done and no thanks. Ouch. And if I just do my nose, my face will look unbalanced. Now, I would like to - after I finish sprogging - have a tummy tuck and have my boobies put back where they belong.