She crossed through a crowded room twice, and she said that a vast majority of the women noticed she was coming and shifted themselves to allow her to pass. The vast majority of the men didn't notice her coming, even when she asked them to move.

I had an interesting experience my last time at SFO. I had been put in first class and not one of the four men standing around me offered to help put my bag in the overhead. I don't think I've ever been in coach where that has been the case.

On a completely different note (sort of), do people use the word "agita"?

I don't think I use it, but I've seen it enough, although usually for metaphorical indigestion.

I would relate public transportation experiences, but no one here ever takes it.

WTF???

Well, he was on speed....

On a completely different note (sort of), do people use the word "agita"?

Yes.

It's been 10 years since I regularly took public transit and that was in foreign lands. I've never used the public transit here, despite living right by a station. It just doesn't go sensibly near where I'm going.

I don't think I use it, but I've seen it enough, although usually for metaphorical indigestion.

That's what this was. Two of the neediest associates here just made partner. There's been discussion, and possibly some agita.

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Yes.

It's a cool word. I believe I shall start using it.

Dear Word Detective: What is the Italian or Yiddish word for heartburn? I grew up hearing my parents saying "argada," but since I've moved to the South no one seems to believe it's actually a word. Help! -- Kelly, via the internet.

Tell me about it. Ever since I moved to rural Ohio from New York City a few years ago, I've been getting funny looks from people whenever I use standard New-Yorkisms such as "go figure" or "fugeddaboudit." Of course, they also think "bialy" is a breed of dog, so I guess it's hopeless.

In any case, the word your parents were using was almost certainly "agita." You won't find "agita" in most dictionaries, although it is a quintessential Italian-American slang word. Strictly speaking, "agita" is a stomach upset or heartburn. But "agita" can also mean that special kind of existential dyspepsia of the soul you get when absolutely everything goes wrong. Comedian Jackie Mason has explained "agita" as "when you have been aggravated to the point where it feels like you have a serious migraine headache throughout your whole body." "Agita" is thus more or less the Italian-American equivalent of the Yiddish "tsuris" ("misery"), an equation not lost on Woody Allen, who made a song about "agita" the centerpiece of his 1984 film "Broadway Danny Rose."

"Agita" is not a standard Italian word, and linguists are not certain where came from. One possible source is the Italian word "agitare" ("to agitate" or "to trouble"), which in turn came from the Latin "agitare," which meant "to stir up." To be "agitato" in Italy is to be very excited, and a musical score marked "agitato" is intended to be played at a frenzied pace. But it's also possible that the source is "acido" (pronounced "AH-chee-do"), Italian for "stomach acid," which then possibly became "agita" ("AH-jih-ta") over time. Whatever the source, "agita" seems to have arrived in New York with Italian immigrants around the turn of the century, and has been in constant use, especially in places like New York City, ever since.

I also say "excuse me" and "could you move over" as I roll my eyes and then sit

I do this too. Of course, I have the added perk of giant fluffy petticoats and Looking Eccentric, so people on the bus usually make room for me very quickly.

Italian or Yiddish

I love this.

Of course, I grew up figuring that "Oy vey" was French, because it was my Memere I heard saying it.